OK ,here's my deal. I'm dating a married woman who still lives with her husband. The marriage is over , He knows about me and knows she's moving out and getting a place with me. She's stuck living there for now because finding a place is tough where she lives , there is a waiting list for apartments and there is the distance issue between me and her , we live several hours apart and its going to take me a little while to get things together and move there. Now here's the issue, he still demands sex from her. he says while she lives there its owed to him. And she submits to him. She is dealing with a very controlling , immature , unreasonable person who will make her life miserable there unless she does what he asks. On one hand , I tell myself its no big deal, she's doing what she has to until she's out of there. On the other hand, this is so infuriating to me! I tell her to say no , just refuse, she shouldn't have to do anything she doesn't want to do. But she says its no big deal, means nothing and makes her life easier if she just lets him do it. Like I said , he makes her life miserable if he doesn't get his way , I've seen proof of this. So , am I making a big deal out of nothing here? I really love this woman , and I really believe she loves me, but this drives me nuts and don't know if this is something I should be worried about. Leads me to believe that maybe there is more going on between them than she lets on, or am I just being insecure? Just don't know if I should stay and deal with this or walk away because this is a sign of problems ahead.