i think you are the rebound and she still loves the other guy
and thats not a bad thing. thats ok. However not talking to you about everything she feels is the tricky point.
sri is right. women (almost all of them) see the world emotionally. They do not want to see the world logically and some even cant.
That is a fact you must understand.
however if she is not being honest and authentic with you then this is her problem.
If you want to go as 3 ppl then do so
if she wants to go alone with her ex then she should
however thats not something id tolerate. Or to word it better, if shed be honest with me regarding all her emotionions then i probably would.
however i doubt that this is the case in your scenario.
If you think I am insulting you with my post or bashing you: You do not get the point.
I am not here to insult or bash anyone. I offer up my free time to help. Take from my post what is useful to you.
If you are angry about my post or myself, then please stop and think how that happened. Usually that is the way the brain responds if a critical belief system is challenged (its called cognitive dissonance). If you have trouble with it please answer in the thread. I will come back to you.