I would call the psychologist and tell him wtf
There's someone with the chance of happy love and he's like: nah you will get hurt again
I mean wtf
And on the meantime you need to talk to her
You are both hurt and still everything is fine
There is no reason not to be slow or careful
However it works out on your part. You don't mind the stress she is going through
And why should you give up on love if you have a (very good) chance together
If you want to love then there is a way
If she wants it too then you know what you are getting yourself into and you are ready.
And her therapist should see to that she is happy
And not that she may take a risk with a relationship
Any relationship is a risk. That's it.
The dickhead
Makes me angry such douches.
I would do that only if I knew perfectly well that my patient would take the decision against me and for the relationship
If you think I am insulting you with my post or bashing you: You do not get the point.
I am not here to insult or bash anyone. I offer up my free time to help. Take from my post what is useful to you.
If you are angry about my post or myself, then please stop and think how that happened. Usually that is the way the brain responds if a critical belief system is challenged (its called cognitive dissonance). If you have trouble with it please answer in the thread. I will come back to you.