Hello all, I would deeply appreciate any thoughts on my situation. I started seeing a girl about 2 months ago. She'd recently broken up with a guy who got her pregnant (she had an abortion), and found out soon after that she had bacterial vaginosis, meaning we couldn't have sex until it cleared up. We were hanging out every day, and she seemed attracted to me, but there was almost always something she needed help with. I was initiating most of the contact, and I was always available when she asked for me (mistake, I know). I thought that she might just be using me, but she spent almost every day/night at my house even when she didn't need help with anything. One day we'd be kissing, talking, laughing etc, and another day she would hardly talk to me at all. We even showered together once, and went out together to buy condoms. When I would ask her about the situation, she would tell me that she liked being around me/was interested, but that she just wasn't in a good place emotionally. When her vaginal issues cleared up, she started saying that she didn't want to have sex with anyone yet because she wasn't over her ex. After that she still spent most days at my house (but stopped sleeping there), although she became distant. She still wanted to hang out with me, though, even with almost zero contact happening, except for a couple of times when she danced with me (erotically). Then, I went out of town for 3 weeks, during which we talked some, and she even sent me a dirty picture. She said she was now over her ex, but didn't want anything serious yet. When I got back into town, she wanted to see me that same night (Sunday). She said it would only be for a short while, though, and I didn't want her to think I was desperate, so I said we should just see eachother another time when we'll have more time. She suggested the next day (Monday), but said she wouldn't have much time then, either. I said we should just do it when she isn't busy, but she kept wanting to see me that night (Monday), so I saw her. I tried seducing her, but she said we didn't have time, and that she had to leave because she works the next day. I was frustrated, so I said, "When are we going to ****?", and she said, "When I'm not busy". So I took her home and told her to call me when she isn't busy. It doesn't seem like her not being ready is the issue, because I think she had sex while I was away. I'm not sure how to proceed. This happened 2 days ago, and I haven't contacted her/heard from her since. Please let me know what you think!