My mom is a racist

[sargam]

I am very sad to say that my mom is a racist and she was very rude when a friend of mine who is a Chinese immigrant came home for some work.

She made crude remarks about communism , the facial features and having tiny weiner.

I was so embarrassed and I hate my mom for that .

Am I right in hating my mom for what she has done ?

[nerdy_guy]

Its a bit complicated, she may not be entirely racist. some people have racial preference when it comes to relationships. she may be okay with you being friends, but not beyond that. She may have said it to discourage you from going beyond friends