To preface: my boyfriend and I were first together a few years ago and during this time, I have met the bride, Sarah. We had broken up for a few years but have since gotten back together. By the time this wedding happens, we'll be back together for about 1 1/2 years and potentially moving together soon-after.
So my boyfriend's best best friend's really good friend Sarah is getting married in March. Sarah asked BF's best friend if she should invite BF to her wedding and BF said yes. BF and Sarah have met a few times
This wedding is going on a few states over from us, so it would be a trip for my boyfriend to get there.
The STDs have been sent out and when my boyfriend received it, it did not come with a 'plus one'/guest.
I casually asked my BF about it and he said 'it's probably because she hasn't met you many times, and it's already going to be about a 400-500 person wedding so she probably wouldn't be able to invite you. But I get where you are coming from."
But, Sarah had asked BF's best friend a few times already when BF and I are going to 'get engaged', so I'd assume she knows that my boyfriend and I are serious?
I don't know, maybe I'm just ranting. But I'm feeling hurt that BF doesn't get a plus one to a wedding that he has to travel for, and especially since Sarah seems to understand that my boyfriend and I are in a serious relationship.
Should I just get over it or have BF ask his best friend to ask Sarah about it, since BFF and Sarah are really close?