hi everyone,
i'm kinda stuck her.
i had relation with an amazing girl for about 3-4 months and everything was really great.
we lived about 45 mins away from eachother and both had difficult work times but still we tried to spend as much time as possible together.
for those 3-4 months it felt great i really fell in love with her and she with me or atleast she said, ive met her parents and brother/sister in law, and she met my family and daughter, we all got along really well, she had a long relationship before
she met me in wich her ex boyfriend cheated on her and that's why they broke up, she took about 1 year for herself until she started dating again.
after our first date we both felt really good and our second followed closely after, after our third date we deceided to be a couple for reall.
but i knew she was someone you had to be patient with and she thanked me alot for being so patient with her. now fast forward to last weekend. we planned to go on a holiday together from last saturday but friday morning she texted me she was feeling really bad and scared and she didn't want to go anymore (the week before she still said she was really looking forward to it and she hated not seeing me for a while because of some family issues and she being out of the country for a week) i asked her what was going on and why she changed her mind. but she said she didn't know what was happening that she just woke up that way and didn't know what to do, so we cancelled the trip, later that day she texted me she was going to sleep but didn't really know what to say but still wanted to text me something, next morning she asked me if she could come over to pick up her stuff because she wanted to break up.
when she was here we had a litle chat of about 5-10 min and she said she discussed it with her parents and brother and they also thought she just wasn't ready to have a new relation yet. she said that if she would have been ready we would have stayed together for a long time, she also regretted this happening now but she couldn't help it and she said she might even regret it after a week or month or so but she didn't want to tag me along this way and be honest towards me, i asked her if anything else was wrong and she said not otherwise she would tell me, she thanked me for out great time together but that she thinks it's better to have no contact now because that would be the fastest way to make things clear for her. she also said she didn't want me to wait for her and if i meet somebody else it would be her loss also that her eveything she said was true (she told me she loved me etc)
i couldn't do more than tell her what i felt for her was really and that i'm really dissapointed but that i wish her and her family the best for the future.
just a sidenote: she is a really honest and straight to the point person, never caught her lying and i know that's not the kind of person she is.
now what i'm stuck with is, do i have a chance to get back together with her and should i really not text her?
6 November is her birthday, should i send her a text than or anything? it would be 26 days of no contact by then.
also is there any chance she will text me in the comming weeks orso?
or might she reach out when she thinks she ready to have a relation?
we broke up on 14 October and didn't contact eahother since that day.
i know she said not to wait but she's really amazing and worth giving some time since i really see us having a great future together if she is ready
i really could use some help with this situation, scared ive lost her forever
thanks in advance