So yeah just as the title says. I met this girl on OkCupid in like November? and we've been talking on and off since then. I tried setting up a date with her in December, but she had finals apparently and was studying. I didn't hear from her for a week and messaged her again asking if everything is alright, she cave me some it's not you, it's me, thing saying she can't go out because she still has a lot of work to do. See, I'm not really good at the dating game, and tend to over analyze things way too much. I got heartbroken by the first girl I loved 3 months ago, I guess I'm still feeling the effects of being rejected.
Anyways, I said I'd give her time and she apparently really appreciated that and said we should get to know each other more and we'll decide after finals/vacation. Welp, that time came, I tried to give her space and go about my life, until yesterday I texted her somewhat salty in a respectful way saying something like it's disrespectful to ghost someone, because she didn't reply to me for over a week, I assumed she'd never get back as she almost always responds quickly. We talked and I think things were going my way, I was gunna finally set up a date I was exicted as I'd really enjoyed talking to her, well at least throught text. Then, I get hit with the "So the thing is I have a boyfriend now and I thought I told you about this before but I actually didn't I just checked the history....Just so you know i'm sorry I didn't say this earlier"
And yeah as soon as I saw this I got extremely bitter. Am I right to feel like this, I told her it wasn't right to lead me on and that it's rude to not take the other person's feelings into consideration.
She then keeps apologizing for blah blah. My real question is, what do I even do? Just stop talking to her? I tried being nice and respectful of her space and this is where it got me it seems. from what she sent me a few weeks ago she didn't seem to have a boyfriend, so how the hell does she get one when she's apparently studying hard for finals and going on vacation with family?
Yeah, I probably sound pathetic, but I just really expected something out of this. Who knows maybe she doesn't even have a boyfriend and is lying to me to shoo her off? I don't know either way I'm still pretty butthurt and want to tell her off, but I know that will take me know where just make me look bad. What was she really thinking, and what should I do from now on? Again, I'm not too good at this, so any advice would be appreciated, thanks guys