My girlfriend is very loving and affectionate in general but she always avoids anything that involves effort. For example she never drives, washes dishes or carries groceries. I do all of these plus bunch of other work that requires slightest efforts. However we have a very secure relationship and we have a lot of fun in general. Only issue is when i’m sick, she doesn’t really do anything about it and leaves me be. She asks how I am doing and gives suggestions but otherwise goes about her usual business and last night, she went out with her friends and made me feel abandoned for some reason when i was sick in bed with fever. Is this normal and if not how do I go about with resolving it without making her feel guilty? thanks.