Originally Posted by
TheEvilJester
I'm glad some others have chimed in on this. I saw this one before there were any other responses, but I kind of wasn't sure how to feel on this one. My gut instinct, personally, would be to say you shouldn't travel 2 hours out of your way to MAYBE run into some girl you barely know. Even though we know your intentions are innocent, that could very well come off seeming kind of stalkerish. ...At the same time, I wasn't sure if maybe I was way off base and something like that could seem super sweet/romantic. It does seem some of the others shared my concerns, though, that it could possibly be poorly misinterpreted.
Is there any way you can find her on social media? That really would be your best bet, to just add her on some social media and hope to start chatting there. I know you said you tried and didn't find her, but did you maybe not look all that thoroughly. To be perfectly honest, I think in this day and age almost everybody does that. Sure, I can understand why if may feel a little stalkerific, but people's social media is out there for anybody to find. There are certainly actions that may cross the line, but just looking for her on social media in hopes of adding her/talking to her is not, in and of itself, stalkerish.
If you absolutely cannot find her on any social media, then, I don't know.... I guess I'd say maybe just assume your chance has passed. I mean, unless you know anybody from your place of work/nearby who may actually be friends with her and could give her your number. Something like that. But, if you otherwise have no way to connect to her, I don't necessarily think I'd suggest traveling all that way to ask her out/ask for her number.
Again, though, maybe that is just me. I don't know.