Love Problems? Never! Yea, Right. (LONG)

[artyemi]

Man, why do we put ourselves in that position, why?

We're so afraid that they'll think we don't care. What about them, do they care?

How do they prove that they care?

Here we are waiting, jumping at every single opportunity to spend time with the person. And what do they do, keep switching days because they know we'll be there waiting.

And we say, there are these things I want to tell you, etc., but we'll say them, so scared that the other person will be hurt.

:sigh:

We're a crazy bunch of people.

[Tommy]

Tavs - advice I was told was do not talk about the relationship right after the break up. She broke up with you for a reason... give her one to want you back. Tell her you're doing great, work is awesome... all the stuff you've been doing.

I still honestly think a letter is the best way to express yourself and as woman say they love them. I say treat it like a normal date, talk about life... NOT THE PAST... give her the letter at the end, say goodnight and hope for the best.

I'm young and inexperienced, but hey it worked for me.

[TAVS]

Yea, I'm going to wait until I see her. Letter's wont work; she won't read it. She'll listen to what I say but she won't read anything. I think its because I'm very convincing when I write stuff...I'm a good writer and do very well when I have time to think about what I say. Thanks for the advice.

[Tone]

Listen to my man Tommy, he's been there and came out victorious!

[TAVS]

Update: So it's been over a week I guess. She called me randomly Saturday night and wanted to go to a movie. We did. Then she still wanted to hang out the following Monday. We did. We went for dinner and a movie. A couple days later, she suggested we hang out Friday, today. She ended up canceling on that because she's been working hard and needs to get some sleep. That was okay with me, cause I dont really have any more money I want to spend on her this week. I never told her the things I had planned. As far as she knows at this point, I'm done waiting for her. The more I think about it, the more I think that's truely the case. Although I'd love to have her back, I think I'm going to try and find a date for next weekend. It's been a couple weeks since I told her I was moving on, and if anything, it's only made things better between us. If I can date in the meantime and not make things any worse, maybe I should.