Cheating Bf

[carpflounder]

Sami09, you sound JUST like one of my exes. Go ahead and stay with him..its your weakness not ours. Cheating boyfriends have girlfriends like you to thank. Thank you Sami09 for allowing us to thrive!

[Mish]

So how much pain in your eyes do you need to have to get away with cheating?

[Abraxxas]

Some people need all the pain to learn, I know a couple of people like that. "He's proven so much, he's changed, I cant imagine life without him, he wouldnt fight so hard to keep me if he didnt really love me, he promised... again...,"

Whatever, it only hurts me as the 3rd party if I watch and listen to the BS she talks about when the bad is happening... for the 60th time, and guess what, I dont listen or watch anymore.

There are 3 types of people:
1 Those who think and learn from things
2 Those who learn the hard way
3 Those who never learn

You can only control the type of person YOU decide to be.

[Tone]

So true Abraxxas, so true.

[Lloyd95]

There are 3 types of people:
1 Those who think and learn from things
2 Those who learn the hard way
3 Those who never learn

You can only control the type of person YOU decide to be.

Very insightful.

[smilingeyes]

I'm so sorry, but he will do it again. My ex-husband was very sorry, he didn't know what he was thinking, he loved me so much and would never do it again. That is, until he did it again, and then again, and then again. If you give him the "OK" to cheat, he WILL do it. One night stand or not, guys don't cheat until they are already out of the relationship anyway (in their own heads) I'm thinking that as far as he's concerned, thought maybe not conciously, you guys aren't even together anymore.

[updraft]

How have anyone dealt with a bf that cheated. He just told me tonite he did with a person he worked with it was a one nite stand. I am hurting a lot. But at the same time i so want to be with him. i love him so much and i know he loves me. We dated for 2 and a half yrs almost and i dont want are relationship to be over he means the world to me.

OMG listen to yourself! Have you lost all your self-respect?!? Don't put up with a cheater! If he did it once he'll do it again and do you want to be paranoid and miserable the rest of your life?? Do you see yourself married to this dude? C'mon, grow a spine and kick this ass to the curb and find a new man....Other men can give you great sex....

[Fawn]

I've already told you all my thoughts on MSN. I still think your insane though.

You can't have a relationship without trust and it will never be the same again.

[updraft]

i dont want are relationship to be over he means the world to me.

My god, why on earth would you want this man touching you after knowing he has been in someone else's bed??? How can he mean the world to you when he betrayed your trust like this? He may mean the world to you, but to him, someone else is his world. Think girl.

[RSK]

wow - so this is where all the serious discussion takes place, huh?