Need serious advice! (long) PLEASE

[Lloyd95]

Don't know what to say...I hear she's cutting school to go hang out with some guy. Shouldn't the other guy be at school? Or a job or something?

[TAVS]

Relationships hurt. We'd all be wise to sware off them completely.

[Katini]

No kidding. So it's been..like, two months or so? Is this THIS summer or last? I couldn't get that out of your story.

The personality disorder brings so much to the picture. It sounds like even when you treat her well and try and do what you feel she needs, or at least you try and not be a total ass to her, she is dragging you through the dirt. This is a lot of sufferring you're going through, and it is really hard to sort of...end it all when it seems so random. I suggest a full-on discussion and perhaps another chance? Not necessarily as another chance, but just sort of..see how thigns start going and then you'll know once and for all if this can even be repaired.

my boyfriend and I broke up pre-university, and he wanted so badly to go out and live it free. My short-lived relationship afterward was with a guy who was in the same position as by boyfriend, but wanted to see each other anyway (we broke up due to me--I am not ready). I mean, there is no rule to living. But as a GENERAL rule, it seems like this one has been done. You need to talk.