Hi everyone this is going to take me a little while to explain...but i hope somebody can help me. ^^
I recently started a new art course at my college a month ago...and i get along with everyone perfectly fine. 2 and a half weeks ago i started talking to one of the girls after class...and i was absolutely stunned by how we hit it off...i hadn't really spoken to her before then...but we have so much in common and we can really make each other laugh...and since that first conversation we've been at each others side everyday in class...and she's stayed behind after to talk to me.
I asked her to come see a film with me and she agreed to...but then she started making excuses the day before we were going to go out...she said it would be unfair to see it without her friends becuase they really wanted to see it too. I thought this was a pretty lame excuse and it got me confused...i just thought she didn't want to go out with me...but i said we'd go with her friends and it would be fine...
So the next day we were heading off to see the film and we were meeting up with her friends...when she tells me her boyfriend is coming. I was just shocked...it was the furthest thing from my mind. I thought after talking to her for hours and hours over 2 weeks the fact she had a boyfriend would come up...but it didn't...this was the first time she told me. She must have avoided the subject entirely until she had to tell me. She told me her boyfriend was in a mood becuase she'd been hanging out with me so much...
But since then we've gotten closer...we talk all the time and we're really close...but i don't know what she wants. I don't have a clue wether or not she wants to stay as friends or she has other plans...
i've not talked to her about how i feel...i thought it would be best to leave it and see what happens rather then force something to happen. But it's just gotten me a bit down...becuase i've never connected with a girl as much as this before...and i thought this would be a good time for me to have a serious relationship for once. XP
After finding out she had a boyfriend i tried to distance myself from her...i'd be her friend...but i wouldn't be as close as i was...but it didn't work...she comes and talks to me, and asks me to sit next to her in class...and i can't say "no".
i guess i just want to hear what you think of the situation...any opinoins would be much apreciated ^^