HELP before I say something bad

**Lloyd95** · 13-10-05, 02:05 AM

Originally Posted by cmt9000

BTW, I just had a bowl of chili from Wendy's.

Yum, chili.

I think if you don't straighten this out with her now, in the future you will just have to deal with more of the same. Don't date insecure, jealous, controlling women. (unless they're really really hot

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**cmt9000** · 13-10-05, 02:07 AM

So keep silent until she can't take it anymore and admits that she went overboard?

**Lloyd95** · 13-10-05, 02:08 AM

Originally Posted by cmt9000

So keep silent until she can't take it anymore and admits that she went overboard?

NO. Don't keep silent; nip this one in the bud.

**cmt9000** · 13-10-05, 02:16 AM

I'd love to nip this one in the bud, but how can I do that when she refuses to speak to me until I admit my "guilt" and apologize profusely?

I could easily just aplogize and say I was wrong. But honestly, I don't think I did anything wrong.

Thanks

**cmt9000** · 13-10-05, 02:18 AM

Oh my God...she just left me a message saying that she can't believe that I'm not man enough to admit my guilt! And that I totally ruined her entire day and how disappointed she is in me!

She's making me feel guilty now!

**Junsui** · 13-10-05, 02:19 AM

You didn't do anything wrong. Just tell her y'all can talk about it after work. It's not wise to carry this kind of crap on over email. I wouldn't just ignore her, that might make her more mad. Just tell her you got her email and the two of you can discuss this later.

**Junsui** · 13-10-05, 02:19 AM

Are you sure she's 29 and not 19?

Tone · 13-10-05, 02:22 AM

No kiddin. If it were me I wouldn't talk to her, I'd be mad she's actin like this. When she says something finally I'd be like "You're acting like this over going through the DRIVE THRU with a girl at WORK and coming back and not even us eating together - how ****in stupid is that? If you want to be mad over something stupid, fine - but it's not gonna ruin my day."

Put your foot down, guy. You have NOTHING to apologize for, she needs to realize this throwin a tantrum and acting like a teenager shit is NOT cool.

**margot732** · 13-10-05, 02:25 AM

cmt, you did nothing wrong. Don't discuss this with her over email. Sit her down tonight and get the REAL problem out in the open.

**Lloyd95** · 13-10-05, 02:25 AM

Do NOT, repeat NOT, apologize for something you did not do. This sets a bad precedence for the future.

Tell her that you don't think you did anything wrong and when she is mature enough to discuss this with you, you will.

What the fvck? does she expect you to get her approval on people you eat with/associate with? This girl is Fatal Attraction, no wonder her husband dumped her.

**cmt9000** · 13-10-05, 02:29 AM

She's making me feel so bad though. Now she's saying she's crying at work and asking how I could do this to her and all this other BS....

**shh!** · 13-10-05, 02:29 AM

I think she is mentally ill.

**margot732** · 13-10-05, 02:31 AM

Crying at work? She's manipulating you now, cmt. Please don't give in to it.

**Lloyd95** · 13-10-05, 02:34 AM

Drama Queen! Run boy Run!!

**Rosebud** · 13-10-05, 02:42 AM

seriously she'sdefinetly manipulating you or trying to I mean. I wasn't saying to completely ignore her but not necessarily repsond to the email right away since your at work but it seems as though she's going out of her way to contact you to make you feel even worse. She's getting more mad because you won't apologize but I would keep telling her when she can calm down and think a little more clearly you guys can talk.... like after work.

She sounds really, really immmature? Has she ever done anything like this before?

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