Is this true ...my GF told me this .

[Late_vamp]

yup , were 19 , but were not ready to get married yet , thats in a couple of years , for now its just sort of a "plan" if everything goes right , so dont think that in a year or 6 months ill be proposing and giving her a ring . we just both agree that later on it would be great to be married one to another , but we dont take it 100% seriously because then it would be a major dissapointment if it doesnt happen .

dont worry , im not pressuring her , she was just trying to win an argument and in the end i won . Because she says she can go without it for a LONG time , she said 4 years ... NOBODY that has already had it and has a BF can last THAT long . well , im sure theres some exceptions , but im sure i can push her buttons and make her lose our little bet . its nothing serious , we both know that eventually , if things are going good like they are now , we ll trust each other and love each other like crazy in no time ... and it will just happen , without it being "planned" or something like that .

[NeoSeminole]

guys, they've been together for a week! I think some of you haven't read all his posts.

[Rosebud]

wow! Is it just me or do you sound totally different from your first thread?

[Rosebud]

Or original post in this thread I should say! I think I'm tired or something!

[Late_vamp]

wow! Is it just me or do you sound totally different from your first thread?

yea , see the difference when im being kinda crazy and when im feeling fine ... thats the power of sleep and rest . btw ... i hate to sleep , only like 4 hours per day , everyday ... so sometimes i kinda go a little insane for a short while when im alone . but thats rare , only like once every couple of months or so .

[NeoSeminole]

are you sure you're bi-polar or you think you are? Have you been diagnosed by a doc?

[CircleC]

I hope you and your girlfriend talk about other things too. Not just how tight her pussy is and how tight it might be in a few weeks. and i don't think you should be "eating" the nipples. A calmer approach might help you get in her pants quicker.

[Late_vamp]

are you sure you're bi-polar or you think you are? Have you been diagnosed by a doc?

i have been "diagnosed" by many types of "doctors" ... but im not a PURE bi-polar ... like its not intense , its just that i have lots of stress in my life constantly .

[Late_vamp]

I hope you and your girlfriend talk about other things too. Not just how tight her pussy is and how tight it might be in a few weeks. and i don't think you should be "eating" the nipples. A calmer approach might help you get in her pants quicker.

we talk about everything and i really mean EVERYTHING , we got nothing to hide . trust me , this girl had a "calm" bf that was too nice to her . he barely got to kiss her , even less get close to her pants , well he ended up getting nowhere . her life is kind of a dull , its not her fault . its because she cant do anything because of her parents that have crazy and old beliefs , even if she is 19 . so if her life is so depressing (those are her words btw) , then let me bring so life to it and shake it up a little . she just needs someone that she loves to just take her away instead of asking and waiting like a little momma's boy .

im the first man that shes ever been in love with . we barely get to be together alone , its very rare , like once a month or so , so when we get the chance , we go kinda wild . i cant even hold her hand in public because of her family and the ppl that know them, nobody really knows except our close friends ,

if i take a "calmer approach" she would get bored and she would think that after all this time , i finally get to be alone with her and im not doing shit = im being a pussy... so thats not gonna happen . plus its kinda too late cuz she knows how i can get her excited really fast .

[Debunkt]

we barely get to be together alone , its very rare , like once a month or so

Uh, you haven't even been together for a month. I'd say you've been together I think 2 weeks now. I really don't think you could say that you're sexually aggressive towards her because you have to wait so long, because its apparently happened several times in the span of two weeks. I'm not saying you shouldn't give her what she doesn't want, I'm just saying that you may want to make sure you're differentiating between what she really wants and what you really want.

p.s. I've known 3 bi-polar people in my life, and they were all seriously messed up and had to take medications and struggled very hard to control their lives. Being stressed is nowhere near what a bi-polar person feels.

[NeoSeminole]

I agree with Debunkt, you don't sound bi-polar. The symptoms of bi-polar disorder are feelings of mania followed by severe depression. People who suffer from this illness need to be on constant medication. I think you "diagnosed" yourself as bi-polar so people will feel sorry for how messed up your life is when it's really not. Your age supports my hypothesis b/c every teenager seems to think their life is so horrible.

Regarding your posts, you contradicted yourself. You said you two have been dating a week and now you say you get to see each other once a month. You also talk about being in love with eachother. That's very sudden to be having those feelings after 1 week. If your gf seriously has problems, then you should be extra sensitive of her needs. She is vulnerable right now. You shouldn't be pressuring her into having sex if she doesn't want to.

[erase_]

Well , today my GF confessed that she wasnt really a virgin , she said that she only did it once . she said that it dint count because , she asked a doctor "apparently" and that SUPPOSEDLY , if she only did it once , and she waits a couple of years . her pussy will become the same way it was before ... meaning a virgin ... i dont believe a word of that and i said it was BS . But i would like to see the point of views of ppl and to know if this is true .

also , second issue , she already had sex once (or so she says) , yet she doesnt want to do it with me because she doenst want her pussy to get "overused" ... i told her that the way a pussy works , after a while (like a couple of weeks , months depending ) the size of the vagina goes back to its original form , im not saying a virgin , but it wont stay open like that ... imagine if that would stay open like that , what about child birth ? of course it some girl gets slammed by 100 guys her pussy's gonna get messed up , same thing with having lots of kids.

i need to convince her that having sex with me wont "screw her pussy up" ... she knows im right , she wants to have sex , she;s just afraid that if we dont get end up together , that her next lover will find her pussy "loose" . we both want to do it , we both know im right , everybody has needs . yet she wont **** until marriage even tho she already did (once ) cuz she wants to keep it nice and tight .

how stupid is that !

Your girlfriend is blonde? Or maybe she has a penis?

She will definitely tighten up again. Tell her you'd like to express yourselves in a new way. That sex is EXCITING and ROMANTIC. It's a new boundary for the two of you.

Or you can always PIITB (put it in the butt)

[Late_vamp]

u guys have it ALL wrong , we havent even had sex yet ... we were just discussing that , read ALL the posts before posting next time ... its all written there ...