i thnk you're smothering each other way too much ...
i've been in relationships (in my teen years) where both me and my girlfriend would be like "if I can't do this, you can't do that ..." ... "you can't have fun without my approval..." ... $hit like that ...
Everyone else is pretty much on the button as well ... being scared to let her go out because she's gonna find someone else?? like debunkt said, do you want someone that would do that?
You've got to trust that you're in a relationship with the person you want ... things won't always go by the script ... do your thing and let her do hers ... if marriage is an option, then you'll have plenty of time to figure things out ...
no autographs, please!
The more I see, the more I don't know for sure. - John Lennon
Life is ... Too Short.
"It seems we living the 'American Dream', but the people highest up got the lowest self-esteem. The prettiest people do the ugliest things ... for the road to riches and diamond rings."