no idea what to do

[iamshaqoneal]

first of all, i m not an attrative guy. i found myself into this girl few weeks ago, shes in one of my class, she is not a popular girl, and i think that shes a little bit shy. we both know each others name, but we never have a conversation, not even say hi. there are few times i see her walking alone, i just look at her or even sometimes i m affraid to look at her, if i m lucky enough, she will look back , but not for long, mostly just a glance. i dont know what to do. I wanna ask her to be my friend, but im stuck here, i dont know what to start, plz help me out

[hallanole]

well the first step is to say hi.

scary yes.

just something simple,

"hey i'm (blank), your in (class) with me right?"

maybe say you missed something the teacher said.. ask her to explain.

but other then that you gotta say hi to her.

[K3vMySt3r]

hi there...yes i used to have those problems...just wanted to tell you that theres nothing wrong about saying HI to someone...just shows that you care, and that u want to have a conversation even if it's some random person u meet...and another thing...its not lyke u're going to ask her out...just say hi once in a while...see that'll be your HI and BYe friend...after a while of hi's step up and have a conversation...usually wat i ask is mostly SCHOOl and tell em how STUPID School is...tahts everyone's common interest LOL...but hey u're getting a conversation right? thats all that matters...plz keep us posted thx

[IceQueen]

You come up and start walking next to her. Then you go, "Hi!"

[hysteria]

yes i like ice queens approach, just walk straight up to her and introduce urself. Its not that, and once u have done it the stress relief is great!! you'll be feeling great for the rest of that day!!

After this she should start saying hi too if not i guess its up to u to do, and start making convo u need to make her feel comfortable to talk to u. This could bring out a really good side in her, she might not really be shy to friends, just to strangers like what u are now to her. So comon get out there and give it ur best.

hope this helps u in the best way possible

[jane]

Originally posted by IceQueen
You come up and start walking next to her. Then you go, "Hi!"

The obvious answer usually is the best..

[hysteria]

oh it is indeed

[iamshaqoneal]

thank you guys