i recently hooked up with this guy that i've been friends with for about 3 years. we've always flirted, it's basically just part of our friendship, but i never thought it would lead to anything more than that. we've made out a few times since we first hooked up, which shouldn't really be much of a problem. however, the first time we hooked up was only a day after i broke up with my boyfriend of almost 2 years. i didn't break up with my boyfriend for my friend; it just happened. but, i'm pretty sure my boyfriend is still in love with me, so this whole thing with my friend is being kept a secret from pretty much everyone we know.
now, my problem is that i can't tell if he just wants to be friends with benefits or something more. i'm okay with either because i don't want a serious relationship, so FWB would be okay and dating would be okay too because there's no chance for it to get serious since we're both going to college soon. it seems like he likes me, but he has a reputation for being a charmer, so i'm not really sure what his true intentions are.
should i ask him what he wants? or should i just go with the flow and see what happens? i feel like knowing what he wants from me will make it easier for me to figure out how i'm supposed to act towards him, but maybe i'm just overanalyzing the situation??