Should I dump him?

[dono]

Count again .

Uhm.... heh..... 3?

[alice]

make that 4!

[dono]

make that 4!

1 for vashti
1 for clynn
1 for dono
1 for alice
__________
4 points

[vashti]

Keiran also alluded to a commitment issue, so lets call it 5.

:-)

[clynn]

so should we say anything more about that?

How does one recognize and move forward with that knowledge............?
Or awareness...

I would suggest that being aware is the first step.

The second is to not rush yourself but to continue to challenge yourself. You may realize that you like the commitments you make once you make them but fear (and dread) them beforehand.

[2 diff animals]

Sounds like a typical woman to me. Always confused and searching for greener grass.

[Tone]

Not just women... people in general.

[clynn]

Yah it is okay to be tenative in starting a new relationship. Not evryone is full on full force.

[misombra]

you are just scared to let him in. why?

[alice]

sounds like she's not in love with him to me. that's why she's not letting him in.
the question is: does she want to stay with someone she's comfortable but not in love with, or will she dump him in order to look out for mr. right and take the risk of possibly ending up alone?

[k73]

mama always said follow your gut....if you're having a weird feeling you shouldn't ignore it. i wouldn't let the relationship get any deeper until you're able to figure out the basis of this feeling or are able to prove it wrong. it's there for a reason whether you can figure it out or not. if you can't figure it out maybe it's better off you don't know. just let him know that even though you like him there's something just not right and you don't want to waste his time or yours in something that won't work out in the end. better to face the heartache sooner rather than later.

[Kieran]

Have you tried Pepto Bismol?