I'm confused and need advice. I have been going out with this guy for 3 months, we get on really well and when we are together I feel realy comfortable. He is the kindest most caring guy I've been with and I have never felt so comfortable with someone even intimately and we have fun together. I told him the other day that I was not sure about us. Obviously he asked me why and the only answer I could give him was that I was basing it on 'gut feeling and intuition'.
Am i being fair to him, I am finding this hard and do not know what this feeling is based on. What should I do? Am I stupid basing splitting up just on my gut feeling and intuition?
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24-02-06, 06:57 PM #1
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Should I dump him?
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24-02-06, 07:42 PM #2
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what's this "gut feeling" you're talking about – do you love him or not?
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24-02-06, 07:45 PM #3
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Yes you are being stupid.
You sound quite insecure...
Was your last relationship a bad one?Suck my Bawls...
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24-02-06, 09:24 PM #4
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I can't explain the gut feeling. Something just doesn't feel right, even though obviously other things are right. I don't think I love him enough!! I still want to be friends if possible though as I really care about him!!
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24-02-06, 09:32 PM #5
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Originally Posted by Kieran
I have never had a relationship longer than 3 months although I'm nearly 30. None have been bad in much of a sense.
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24-02-06, 09:40 PM #6
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Perhaps this feeling, then, has nothing to do with him at all, and is all about YOU. Clearly you have issues with commitment. Maybe you should work on that.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
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I suggest that first, you get tough actin Tinactin to clear up your foot fungus/itchyness problem.
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24-02-06, 09:52 PM #8
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LOL damn - beat me to it. Originally Posted by Lloyd95
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24-02-06, 10:32 PM #9
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The fact that you're pushing thirty and never gotten past three months is a mild concern.
Try sticking with this for a year.
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Im startin to like this guy Kieran...
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In a homo sort of way? Originally Posted by Lloyd95
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No; sorry to disappoint
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It is a commitment thing I think.
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25-02-06, 12:02 AM #14
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I'd vote that it's a comittment thing as well. whoop! clynn, we got 2 points so far!
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Count again . Originally Posted by dono
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
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