sex hurting for the girl

[lilwing89]

how many times before sex doesnt hurt for the girl? or does it always hurt?

[Ellynn]

Well the first time is usually uncomfortable... for obvious reasons.

But after that, its not bad. It shouldn't be uncomfy unless the guy is like HUGE.....or she wasn't stimulated or into it enough.

Thats why foreplay is sometimes a necessity....

[xwfuro]

do it a few times, itll hurt less and less.. and yeah foreplay is a def must /

[vashti]

It probably won't hurt for her when she is old enough to be doing it, lilwing.


How are you, by the way? Haven't been around much lately, have you?

[lilwing89]

im ok, thanks for asking

[johncalc]

When i was in high school, my science teacher actually said that sex hurts for the girls the first time they have it and for about maybe 4 times after that. I did not believe her, but i dont know since i have never had sex with a virgin

[Tiay]

I read a very good article once that said in theory it shouldn't have to hurt much at all if people started small (finger/s) and worked their way gradually up to penis-size, say, by using toys and copious amounts of foreplay.
But hardly anybody does that... no pain for the ladies?-- that's crazy-talk!

[gingerbabe86]

No pain no game man! haha... First time it usually hurts for most girls and then eventually it's doesn't hurt. But u know if u have sex for a few hours straight then it does hurt afterwards.. not hurt but stings. I don't know if ppl consider that the same.

[*Bright_Eyes*]

Sex does normally hurt the first time and it can be sore a few times afterwards but it's so worth it! lol

[WorldOfMyOwn]

I was wondering is it normal for it not to. Could my circumcision status have anything to do with it not hurting. How about the fact that she left it inside of her for awhile with out moving me or her.

[vashti]

It hurts because you are breaking through a membrane inside her body called the hymen. It can be of varying degrees of toughness, which is why it is more painful for some girls than others, and sometimes this membrane breaks on its own through sports activities. Whether or not one has been circumcised is irrelevant.

[WorldOfMyOwn]

Then it must have been the fact that she sat on top of me. Like I said I wasn’t pushing so it probably stretched and released while I got a erection. Or something. Or maybe the lack of movement allows it to release with out to much pain. Any way that’s what I thought from the start.