Guys, how often is sex on your mind?

[Sooky]

Hello there people!

A lot of guys I know seem to joke around about sex and use sexual inuendo all the time. To the point where essentially everything they hear has sexual under tones! Like I could say, "I'm just going to get my juice" and a guy says "You can have my juice, =P wink wink..." Its crazy!

Just wanted if theres any truth to the myth that guys think about sex every few minutes because that sounds crazy to me! Or is that just when your not working most guys think about it that often? =P

Also it seems to be that male sex drive is highest between 18-24, do you think thats true? So I'm assuming guys after 25 are more chilled out and won't be quite so into the sex thing all the time.

Just been a bit bored really so I thought I'd investigate these myths to see if guys really do see sex so differently to us girls. I only think about sex a few times a day or so... maybe more on some days.

Would apreciate any input guys...

[bluestrattos]

It's all about chemistry and hormones

After 25, men seems to not have that "predator" behavior like he used to have on he was younger, still "hunts" but since he become more wiser, he makes a different approach.

And since he's older have mores responsabilities, so he can't think in sex all the time. Once again, still think but not all the time, after all, sex don't pay bills (it depends what's your job )

[Gigabitch]

A man is basically a dick transportation system. It's his purpose in life to take the dick to wherever the dick wants to go. Every few minutes, the dick reminds the man about his mission. It's that simple.

[Lloyd95]

I think a better question would be "when is it NOT on our mind"?

[Sooky]

I think a better question would be "when is it NOT on our mind"?

Ok then. When is sex not on a guys mind?

[Lloyd95]

Ok then. When is sex not on a guys mind?

Never.

[Sinsemilla]

A man is basically a dick transportation system. It's his purpose in life to take the dick to wherever the dick wants to go. Every few minutes, the dick reminds the man about his mission. It's that simple.

Are you a man?, I think not.
But this might go for a lot of men out there...

I don't really think about sex that much, it's not that important really
When I younger it used to be on my mind a lot, but now it isn't.
There is just so much stuff a lot more important then just sex, altough it is nice...

I have sex with my girlfriend a couple of times a week, but all the other time I don't really think about it a lot.

[vashti]

Sex only becomes "not important" when you are getting it regularly.

[lilwing89]

Sex only becomes "not important" when you are getting it regularly.

i disagree with this.

i think that sex only becomes "not important" when the main focus is on the orgasm and everything in sex becomes centered around the orgasm.


and sex/porn/anything like that is very addicting to guys in general. for me it is very addicting and i try to keep off the porno but every now and then i seem to 'binge' into a porno.

sex isnt on my mind when i am angry or sad. usually only when i am happy.

here is a sad example. :
when you are a guy who is addicted to masturbation, you will be sad one day, maybe heartbroken, or depressed and you are trying to sleep. you dont want to masturbate but you need the feelings to fall asleep. so you have to against your own will just so you can sleep. its very sad. and yes, i have gone through this, it's very hostile to your feelings. it tears you in two.

[drewcarrey]

study maslow's hierarchy of needs. the bottom is physical, then security, etc, etc.

physical needs (sex, food, etc) is very basic. it becomes "not important" when a more apparent need arises. i.e - let's say you are with a really hot woman. she gives you a key to her motel. when you get in there, she has leather on, a whip... the whole 9 yards. apparently, sex is the most apparent thing.

then out of nowhere, a fire breaks out. you need to secure your life - so obviously, you forget about sex and get out of the motel. that's how it works with men or women.

but us men... sometimes, we'd rather burn in a fire than not get laid... LOL ^_^

[Guz200sx]

I sometimes do things to girls like you said but not too often because then they will see me as a perv.

I am 29 and I still think about it a lot. I am a late bloomer though. I didn't have full blown sex till 21 and since then its been like the floodgates were opened and its constantly on my mind. I can't get it off my mind and I usually only stop when I have had sex and even then I won't stop until I am completely spent.

Hello there people!

A lot of guys I know seem to joke around about sex and use sexual inuendo all the time. To the point where essentially everything they hear has sexual under tones! Like I could say, "I'm just going to get my juice" and a guy says "You can have my juice, =P wink wink..." Its crazy!

Just wanted if theres any truth to the myth that guys think about sex every few minutes because that sounds crazy to me! Or is that just when your not working most guys think about it that often? =P

Also it seems to be that male sex drive is highest between 18-24, do you think thats true? So I'm assuming guys after 25 are more chilled out and won't be quite so into the sex thing all the time.

Just been a bit bored really so I thought I'd investigate these myths to see if guys really do see sex so differently to us girls. I only think about sex a few times a day or so... maybe more on some days.

Would apreciate any input guys...

[King Zarathu]

I didn't read anybody else's post, so I'm just providing my answer based on the name of the thread.

I used to think about nothing but sex. I was ****ing crazy about it. Every girlfriend I went through, I used to be one of those worthless ****ing assholes that did nothing but use girls--girl after girl after girl, used, used, used. I would lie to myself (and them) and say that I loved them. I didn't. I didn't have the balls, nor the guts, to tell them what was inside. The problem was buried so deep inside that I wasn't even aware of it myself.

Anyway, after a badass amount of growing up, I don't think about sex at all anymore. I wouldn't go anywhere past 2nd base with a girl. I'm not just talking shit, since then I've experienced moments where I had to stop things in order to "preserve" things. God I feel like a female XD

So, until I'm positive that I can handle the consequences (emotional dependency, ruining the relationship, psychological issues, among much more) I need to stay away from that shit.

Moral of the story for you: not all guys are assholes.

[Blix]

Thinking about sex all the time is very different from being an asshole.

Also I think more accurate a statement is that guys Think about [a]girl[s] 90%[ish] of the time. not specifically sexually, and a lot more about one girl if they are in love.

~Blix

[Junket]

Porn is dead to me.

I've gone days without thinking about sex.

Consciously at least.

[EvilGenius]

@TS

generally, yeah...but only around early and late 20's

edited:

about the 20's thing... i dont know.. lolXD