Nice Guys vs. Jerks

[misombra]

like most things, i think it goes both ways.

just as girls may prefer "cocky" guys, guys seem to also prefer "bitchy" girls, no matter how much they say they don't.

[Junket]

Frasbee and I are only arguing semantics.

I forgive you for not reading every post, but calling me middle-aged is unforgivable.

It's rediculous how many times I've had this problem in real life.

Too many times when arguing, with my team mates especially, we'd start out disputing a specific point, but as we argued, and shared our viewpoints, I'd stop and realize "wait...that's what I'm sayin'!...we're arguing the same damn point!"

I had a tendency to express my views in a fairly radical, non-politically correct way, straight up and to the point which seemed to conflict with the way they expressed their views.

We coulda debated PC-ness.

On a side note: I think I can safely say I don't like bitchy girls.

[vashti]

On a side note: I think I can safely say I don't like bitchy girls.

You like bitchy girls as much as women like cocky guys. Admit it.

misombra should be a lawyer or something.

[Junket]

You like bitchy girls as much as women like cocky guys. Admit it.

No...I really don't think I like bitchy girls.

I'm rackin' my brains here.

[misombra]

well i really don't like cocky guys. fair enough?

[Junket]

well i really don't like cocky guys. fair enough?

I'd say that's fair.

Never said all girls fall for that stuff.

...but we are referring to our definition, or Vash's definition...?

[misombra]

cocky
One entry found for cocky.
Main Entry: cocky
Pronunciation: 'kä-kE
Function: adjective
Inflected Form(s): cock·i·er; -est
1 : boldly or brashly self-confident <a cocky young actor>
2 : JAUNTY
- cock·i·ly /'kä-k&-lE/ adverb
- cock·i·ness /'kä-kE-n&s/ noun

girls liike guys that are self-confident, but not bodly or brashly so. okay?

[vashti]

The girls win.

[Gigabitch]

misombra should be a lawyer or something.

+1

Someday, I'll need one. She'll be the one.

[jurupa]

The girls win.

Uh ya, and let me guess guys drool right?

cocky
One entry found for cocky.
Main Entry: cocky
Pronunciation: 'kä-kE
Function: adjective
Inflected Form(s): cock·i·er; -est
1 : boldly or brashly self-confident <a cocky young actor>
2 : JAUNTY
- cock·i·ly /'kä-k&-lE/ adverb
- cock·i·ness /'kä-kE-n&s/ noun

girls liike guys that are self-confident, but not bodly or brashly so. okay?

Thank you for posting the defintion of the word cocky. But you loose in your arguement anyway, so why are you even trying? I have heare girls say that they "want" one type of guy and yet they go for another type of guy not even close to what they "want". I bearly seen girls actually go for the type of guy they say that they want.

Personally I have found that if you don't over do the cockyness girls will go for it every time. Becuase most girls will see it as being confident and not being cocky. But it is also depends on how a guy goes about being cocky. I mean just look at the "bad boys", they are practially cocky 24/7 and a lot of girls go for them, I wonder why?

[misombra]

Uh ya, and let me guess guys drool right?

Thank you for posting the defintion of the word cocky. But you loose in your arguement anyway, so why are you even trying? I have heare girls say that they "want" one type of guy and yet they go for another type of guy not even close to what they "want". I bearly seen girls actually go for the type of guy they say that they want.

Personally I have found that if you don't over do the cockyness girls will go for it every time. Becuase most girls will see it as being confident and not being cocky. But it is also depends on how a guy goes about being cocky. I mean just look at the "bad boys", they are practially cocky 24/7 and a lot of girls go for them, I wonder why?

actually i haven't loosed in my arguement because my bf of 4 years is a nice guy. not at all cocky.

so let me ask you a question, do you like bitchy girls, or do you like nice girls?

(i think the guys are confusing cockiness with confidence.)

[vashti]

(i think the guys are confusing cockiness with confidence.)

Of course they are. Here is another definition for cocky, which I posted on an earlier page, from dictionary.com:

cock‧y1  –adjective, arrogant; pertly self-assertive; conceited: He walked in with a cocky air.

[Junket]

Whatever, you guys are once again focusing on half of the whole argument.

So really, your argument is moot.

[misombra]

..what is the 'whole' argument?

[jurupa]

actually i haven't loosed in my arguement because my bf of 4 years is a nice guy. not at all cocky.

I never said all guys are/where cocky, now did I? But you didn't answer my question tho, which is why do girls go for "bad boys" more than the "nice boys"?

so let me ask you a question, do you like bitchy girls, or do you like nice girls?

I go for nice girls that are not bitchy. But what is the reason for the question tho? Yes there are guys that go for bitchy girls, so whats your point?

(i think the guys are confusing cockiness with confidence.)

Uh please explain becuase I am not confused.

Of course they are. Here is another definition for cocky, which I posted on an earlier page, from dictionary.com:

cock‧y1  –adjective, arrogant; pertly self-assertive; conceited: He walked in with a cocky air.

And how are we confused? Please explain, because with your definition, you describe a lot of the females in the city I live in and in surrounding cities. But no girls are not cocky, only guys are.