Need serious fast help on this thing.

[ralf_snake]

Okay my name is Ralf.I like this girl that ive knows since the 7th grade(her name is Marret) and am now in 10th grade.Ill try to fill you in on the details.

Since the 7th grade and thats the same time i met her for the first time in my life i thought she was the most beautiful women in the world.Later on in that grade she slowly had more contact with me and eventualy we called eachother only 1 or 2 times and we didnt talk alot.And that was around valantine and got a rose from her.

In the 8th grade she was in another class and we had almost no contact at all.

In the 9th grade we again had almost no contact until my class and her's went to a school trip to another part of my country(Netherlands) we had little contact and when we took the boat on our trip to our destination we had all little talk,and i had the feeling i totly blew it with a stupid comment.
On our destination i was in a room with some classmates(3 males) and well eventualy i told em i liked her(nobody els knew before that) And you know how middle schools are,eventualy she knew.
And wether she liked me or hated me i didnt know.

10th grade.now its 3 weaks later since this grade started and i heared from alot of people that she liked me too.But when everyone confronted us together about it when we together in the same grade(german class) she looked like she was embaresed that i knew now,or they all set this up.And she was emaresed they did this to her.
Now last week her girlfriends gave me her cell phone number and this is where my question should come in.

Should i call her becouse i have no idea what to say or to start talking,other then i want to know how she is and tell her the truth i just want to hear her voice and try to talk and get to know her.
And her birthday is in 4 days and im thinking about it to buy her a necklace with diamonds of a 100 euros.But should i call her before her birthday or after it.

Side information how i feel for her: I worship her,always look at her,my heart always bounces like crazy only when im around her,id die for her,id do everything for her.

Im begging for help.Thank you if you do try to help me.

[Gigabitch]

Firstly, I'd like to say that I think Marret is a cool name.

Secondly, the necklace is too much. It's too serious a gift for someone you're not even dating. You don't want to freak her out.

Call her today. Maybe she'll invite you to her birthday party.

[Mathias]

Seriously, Marret? I'm going to continue my rant on how Mathias never dates girls with awesome names.

Maybe it's because I'm old.

As for you, call her today, Giga's right. What do you have to lose? If she says no, she says no (and by the way you describe it, it really doesn't look like that's going to happen).

So, go for it.

[ralf_snake]

Anyway,any advice when i do call her,maybe some kind of reason why i call her.Becouse im not the social typ and well i realy do want her to understand that i care about her and want to talk,and myabe later on take her out to the mall and the beach.

[vashti]

I don't know how much 100 euros is in American money, but diamonds sound too extravagant for 10th grade. My son (your age) just asked a girl he has known since kindergarten to be his girlfriend on her birthday two weeks ago. He bought her a photo album and put some pictures inside of the two of them along with some other friends, and took her a beautiful bouquet of flowers. She loved it.

When you call her, you can try to ease HER embarrassment by telling her how embarrassed YOU are to have been publically "outed" that way. Then, laugh about it and tell her you guess you just can't keep it a secret anymore, and ask her if she wants to go catch a movie (or something) sometime.

[Gigabitch]

Would love to give you rep for that one, Vashti, but I'm not allowed.

[Mathias]

I don't know how much 100 euros is in American money, but diamonds sound too extravagant for 10th grade. My son (your age) just asked a girl he has known since kindergarten to be his girlfriend on her birthday two weeks ago. He bought her a photo album and put some pictures inside of the two of them along with some other friends, and took her a beautiful bouquet of flowers. She loved it.

When you call her, you can try to ease HER embarrassment by telling her how embarrassed YOU are to have been publically "outed" that way. Then, laugh about it and tell her you guess you just can't keep it a secret anymore, and ask her if she wants to go catch a movie (or something) sometime.

This is the best post I've seen in my short time on here.

Nicely done.

[vashti]

I forgot to tell you - don't let on that you know SHE was embarrassed unless she brings it up, and then act like you didn't notice.

[ralf_snake]

I don't know how much 100 euros is in American money, but diamonds sound too extravagant for 10th grade. My son (your age) just asked a girl he has known since kindergarten to be his girlfriend on her birthday two weeks ago. He bought her a photo album and put some pictures inside of the two of them along with some other friends, and took her a beautiful bouquet of flowers. She loved it.

When you call her, you can try to ease HER embarrassment by telling her how embarrassed YOU are to have been publically "outed" that way. Then, laugh about it and tell her you guess you just can't keep it a secret anymore, and ask her if she wants to go catch a movie (or something) sometime.

could you maybe explain it more easyer and less with hard words,my english is not that good.But i think im getting it.After im back from the gym i hope you edit it,so i can use your advice,thx

And i want to thank the rest of you too.

[vashti]

You: Hello girl of my dreams. How are you?

Her: hello, snake. I'm fine, thank you

You: Wow - that was sooo embarrassing when those kids told you I liked you yesterday. They were supposed to keep it a secret.

Her: (laughing)

You: Well, I guess it isn't a secret that I like you anymore, so what do you think? Do you want to go catch a movie or something sometime?

[ralf_snake]

You: Hello girl of my dreams. How are you?

Her: hello, snake. I'm fine, thank you

You: Wow - that was sooo embarrassing when those kids told you I liked you yesterday. They were supposed to keep it a secret.

Her: (laughing)

You: Well, I guess it isn't a secret that I like you anymore, so what do you think? Do you want to go catch a movie or something sometime?

Wow if it whould go like that that whould be great,but the girl of my dreams sounds not like me,and im not that smooth too.what about this.

me:hi Marret its me Ralf

Marret:Hi Ralf

me: (hope she doesnt hang up) how are you

Marret: good

me:Hows your hockey sport going

Marret:good

me:thats nice,okay i need to tell you something,I was wondering if we could just talk,well you talk becouse id realy like to just hear your voice.I know in class it all sounds weird coming from me,but the truth is i realy like you.

And after that i hope we are jsut talking as long as posible.

[Gigabitch]

Marret: Hey, Ralf?

You: Yeah?

Marret: You should be more confident. It's more attractive to me. Don't make self-deprecating comments like "I know it sounds weird coming from me". Okay?

You: Okay, Marret. Anything you say. I worship you.

Marret: That's right baby, and I love you for it.

Everyone is happy and they go to the mall and the beach.

[vashti]

Wow if it whould go like that that whould be great,but the girl of my dreams sounds not like me,and im not that smooth too.what about this.

::giggle:: "girl of my dreams" was just a joke. Sorry.

me:hi Marret its me Ralf

Marret:Hi Ralf

me: (hope she doesnt hang up) how are you

Marret: good

me:Hows your hockey sport going

Marret:good

me:thats nice,okay i need to tell you something,I was wondering if we could just talk,well you talk becouse id realy like to just hear your voice.I know in class it all sounds weird coming from me,but the truth is i realy like you.

And after that i hope we are jsut talking as long as posible.

The part I made bold might sound fine in your own language, but I don't know how it would go over here. Also, don't you want to ask her to DO something with you? I think you should.

But really, if this girl already likes you, there probably isn't much you can do wrong, so relax and try to have some fun with it. Believe it or not, the anxiety you are feeling over this situation is the part you will remember fondly when you are all grown up.

[ralf_snake]

OH NO,the mobile i was gonna call her with hasent been used for so long and now the phone is saying carderror.NOOOOOOOOOO.

But that part about if she likes me then nothing can go wrong,sounds logic.Thanks that helps out.

Now i have to do something with my mobile,i have to call her.My future depends on it!

[Khazard]

You: Wow - that was sooo embarrassing when those kids told you I liked you yesterday. They were supposed to keep it a secret.

If anything, i think that would make the conversation VERY awkward. Probually a long drawing silence would follow. My god do i hate those.