Got it BAD!!! and she's under age too!!

[jagmeow]

He means jail time. Cause that is all that will be there buddy.

[Kiechi]

[jagmeow]

WTF??? But see how the bad man is behind bars?

[TDurden]

What makes you think she won't call the cops if you start hitting on her?

[Henry123]

PleaseLoveMe just by the name you have chosen to call yourself ("PleaseLoveMe") indicates your NOT too socially savy and that your disperate and needy. I suggest you get some social experience in life. Go see legal aged women. Leave this girl (CHILD!) alone.

[Henry123]

"So.. I tell myself, Hmmm.. I could wait till she's 18, but she says, moment she turns 18 she's leaving this town, and her male friends have invited her to stay with them *Heartbreak*.."

I think this is B.S.
Cause a child that young DONT know what she wants in her life. It just sounds like a convient excuse.

[anachronistic]

good. that is ****ING SICK. why do people think they 'got it bad' or think that 'they're in love' just cuz they saw a pretty waitress! a ****ING WAITRESS!!!!

16 year old waitress... hey how the hell did he know she was 16???

[Henry123]

I get the feeling the original poster was looking to see if this is a pedophile forum. Since it isn't, I doubt he will be back.

If thast the case I'll say good riddance to that poster and I hope the cops is watching the site.

[anachronistic]

he prolly got arrested.. that's why he hasn't posted anything back

[misombra]

oh man leave that child alone!

wtf are you thinking? just cause you're pathetic and can't get a woman your own age you want to victimize some poor 16 year old?

someone call dr. phil.

[PleaseLoveMe]

It's nice to know most of you are grounded in reality, sadly most of you are only thinking of sex. I am beyond that physical need if it's ever an issue. Whats important to me is finding someone who can become a lifelong partner.

When I see her, I don't even think of sex... well not more than the average once every 7 seconds men are usually thinking it. As for the underage thing?? Think of it this way, I've always dispised Child Preditors, and taking advantage of this kid, the idea makes me sick, but thats not what I'm talking about here. I would never even try to kozy on up that way to her, so get your minds out of that gutter and think of what I have said, Dost thou not know the meaning of "chaste" ?

As for this all hitting me, it hit me when she said "The moment I turn eighteen, I'm out of this town". Thats when I realized that when she's eighteen, I'll never be able to tell her how I feel, becuase she will be gone.

Now tell me.. How often does this hit you all??? I know this is a rare thing to happen, the type of thing that make a person physically ill becuase of an emotional attachment btw, my nose just started to bleed today, and I'm deffinately feeling anemic these days. (Makes some of you happy I bet, since your out for blood).

Anyways up until that moment, I was the average normal guy (I think) except with a higher than average "Terminal Foot In Mouth Syndrom" , Heck, it wasnt more than a couple days before it hit that we were talking about our colledge courses, she taking Accounting, and Buisiness Manegment" and I taking Linguistics, Japanese to be presice, even told her more like the reason for me taking this course, "like sign Language before" was becuase of a whole demographics of women I am as yet unable to communicate with.

She had to luagh at that, apperantly she did the same with French.

so anyways it's not about sex, I've been celibate this long, I can wait a few more years, it's about me trying to earn?? win?? the affection of another.




But this is beside the point, the point is that I have no intention of taking advantage of anyone. After many years of "Been there, done that" I'm at a point relationshipwise that sex is only ancillery. It's not their body I crave, it's their intact presence.

I assume most of you all here in this forum are no longer virgins, so you know this to be fact. When a person looses their virginity, their whole outlook, and attitude change, they are no longer the same person that they were before, it is that wholeness I now understand, that I seek in a partner.

as for this original posting it was in truth an attempt at catharsis, to help unburden myself, and hopfully make a way for me to get out of the situation, dull the pain as it were.

[PleaseLoveMe]

As for the "Don't do it's" I would'nt do that anyways, and the name "LoveMePlease" it's becuase I tried several times to sign up, and realised that my AOL account wasnt getting a reply from this forum, so I just used a free mailbox I had and put in the 1st thing that popped into my head (was in hurry, had to get some sleep at the time)

[TDurden]

I'm going to do my best to avoid berating you for your attraction to a minor.

She is 16 years old. If you got her parents permission, if you got your parents permission, if you got everyone's permission it still doesn't mean she's interested. On the off chance she is interested, it's still unlikely she'll be your life partner. She will go off to college somewhere where you are not and the long distance thing won't happen. Instead she will live the college life and meet guys and leave you behind. But that won't happen becaaaaause she does not want to date you. She won't when she's eighteen. She is too young.

Find someone else.

[Henry123]

As for this all hitting me, it hit me when she said "The moment I turn eighteen, I'm out of this town". Thats when I realized that when she's eighteen, I'll never be able to tell her how I feel, becuase she will be gone.

A 16 year old doesnt know what she wants in her life. Let alone stick to any future plans in life.

It sounds like a convient excuse and self justification to go after a 16 year old child.

[Henry123]

It's nice to know most of you are grounded in reality, sadly most of you are only thinking of sex. I am beyond that physical need if it's ever an issue. Whats important to me is finding someone who can become a lifelong partner.

Sorry to say a 16 year old cant be a "Lifelong" partner at her age, her personality is just developing and WILL continue to CHANGE.
Women find what they want in a relationship around 25-30 yrs age.

Once more it just sounds like another convient excuse and self justification to go after a 16 yr old child.