Hi all. I'm new but thought I'd ask a question to see what kind of responses I'd get. Anway, I'm 26, she is 24 and 7 months ago(Sept '03) my fiance broke off the engagement because things had gotten out of control between us. The sparks quit flying because of job related stresses as well as trying to please two families. I took it pretty hard since we were together for 4 years and engaged for 1 of those. We had kept in contact, but for nothing more than to say "Hi" and to see what the other was up to. Nothing more. We never said anything about getting back together.
Fast forward to May '04. She is in London for 6 months with her job and we've kept in contact but not regular until this past week. We talked when she moved there in March and have talked on the phone once until this past week. We've talked 4 times in 7 days with the shortest phone call being 3 hours. She has asked that I come to London for a week or so because she wants to see me. Truth be known, I'd love to go and since we talked most of last week, I've started to develop feelings again. So has she. I never imagined it would ever happen. We covered everything in those conversations, why we broke up, why she handled it the way she did...everything including some guys she has messed around with saying they didn't "get her". She said she has had a lot of time to think as opposed to her last job stop where she was out partying with new friends and hadn't stopped to think about what she did nor did she care at that point due to drinking and things. Now she is thinking that she may want to give the relationship a try again. A lot of the things that I saw that I did wrong in the past year have been fixed, or so I think they have and she said she can tell in my voice that I have changed as well. She sounds like she has matured quite a bit as well. The only catch is she doesn't want to commit to anything till she gets back to The States in August.
Her friends who were "our" friends have gotten upset at her because she is talking to me and thinking the thoughts she is thinking. They told her that she has no idea how much she absolutely destroyed me and they don't want to see me go thru that again. But they also have not said they will support her in whatever she decides.
Any suggestions???