Originally Posted by
Gigabitch
IMO, fear of intimacy is about fear of loss, fear of rejection. I could be totally wrong about that, but I think it's a very strong part of our nature to want to connect with others.
Do you have trouble connecting emotionally with others or is it just the physical aspect of relationships that freaks you out?
Both really, but mainly I just have problems being myself with people. I've got a bit better lately I think, and I tried really hard to be myself with my ex bf and he still dumped me, so I don't know. Maybe I'm just kidding myself thinking I'm the really laid back and 'cool' type, because evidence is against me.
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