The clitoris is very sensitive, and if what you are doing doesn't feel good, you are probably doing it wrong. Vaginas need to be "warmed up" - you can't just jump right on it.
Are you using your tongue or your fingers? (It isn't clear based on your post). Also, it sounds very unlikely she is having orgasms at all. Your girl should learn how to give herself an orgasm before hoping someone else can do it for her.
Last edited by vashti; 08-06-07 at 10:58 PM.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?