Why is she being like this?

[Perfguy]

Hey Ladies,

I think my GF is trying to give me hints she is ready to move on but I'm unsure. Any advise would be helpful. This is the situation: The weekend before last she told me she needed to help a girlfriend of hers and she would not be able to see me. I was ok with it. We only see each other on the weekends. Then, this past weekend (without any advance notice) she told me again she needed to help her friend. I asked her about seeing her Sunday (and offered to drive to see her) and she said no. She then started to give me attitude that she doesn't need to see me every weekend and I need to concentrate on other things. She said it irritates her that I want to see her every weekend. I reminded her I haven't seen her in two weeks and she didn't care. I said ok and hung up. I have not heard a word from her since Saturday. We normally talk everyday. We've been together for six months. I think this spells trouble. The thing is, we were getting along fine, as far as I knew. We've had problems in the past with another girl but that is no longer. Should I give her some space or try to contact her? Any ideas? Thank you.

[Steve2004]

sounds to me like you're being reasonable about it. It does sound like she's kind of pulling away from you though. I'd wait it out, see if she calls. If she doesn't I'd just end it myself.

[Sybella]

I would just sit back and let her make the next move. If she still wants to be with you then she will call when she is ready. At that point I would express your concerns and then try to talk out any problems.

Wow...I almost sound smart there. Ok I'm scared now.

[meh]

Unless this is a long-distance thing, why do you only see each other on the weekends? You mention "driving" to see her but from your post I gather it's not very far away.

[anachronistic]

...sounds to me like she's got a hefty case of BITCH. Do you seriously want to give your attention to someone that rude and undeserving?

Let her make the next ****in' move.

[vashti]

I think you need to make yourself busier (and therefore more interesting). If she doesn't want to see you every weekend, it's because she is bored. Have you been in the habit of being clingy on the weekends? Oh, and stop with the phone calls every day. It's too much. You are losing her interest.

[Perfguy]

Well, I got my answer today. I contacted her today to ask if she honestly still wants to see me. She said sorry, but no she doesn't. Appearently, she has been unhappy for two months or so but couldn't bring herself to say anything. The unhappiness translated into anger on her part. She hopes I forgive her and thinks I derserve to meet someone better than her. She doesn't want the same things as me. I told her ok, and I hope she has a nice life. I guess it's over

[Junket]

Well, I got my answer today. I contacted her today to ask if she honestly still wants to see me. She said sorry, but no she doesn't. Appearently, she has been unhappy for two months or so but couldn't bring herself to say anything. The unhappiness translated into anger on her part. She hopes I forgive her and thinks I derserve to meet someone better than her. She doesn't want the same things as me. I told her ok, and I hope she has a nice life. I guess it's over

"It's not you, it's me..."

I hate that bullshit.

**** that bitch.

But not literally.

Actually, if you could, I say bust inside her and don't let her cum, then leave.

[Steve2004]

Actually, if you could, I say bust inside her and don't let her cum, then leave.

why are you so angry?

anyway. yea, she's a bitch. and a pussy apparently since she couldn't find the balls to say anything.

[vashti]

Breaking up with class is very difficult to learn. Sorry, my friend. Try to learn what you can, and then move on.

[Only-virgins]

Wait wait..lol..you only see each other every weekend and she considers that to much? wtf!? I see my friends more then that lol ...let alone a girlfriend that would be weird.

[Ath]

Breaking up with class may be a learning experience, but breaking up with respect should be the norm. Honesty is such a rarity.

[Gigabitch]

Perf, see this as a wonderful opportunity to make a better choice next time. And please, for God's sake, come here first. If I remember correctly, you didn't see why it was a bad idea to date someone you work with, so you clearly need guidance.

Sorry she strung you along like that. That wasn't cool.

[anachronistic]

Perf, see this as a wonderful opportunity to make a better choice next time. And please, for God's sake, come here first. If I remember correctly, you didn't see why it was a bad idea to date someone you work with, so you clearly need guidance.

Sorry she strung you along like that. That wasn't cool.

I used to be really dependent on this forum when i was with the last girlfriend. i definitely gained some wisdom and confidence from being a member here.

[vashti]

Breaking up with class may be a learning experience, but breaking up with respect should be the norm. Honesty is such a rarity.

You are correct. My initial impression was that these were two kids, and I generally am more lenient with kids who don't behave properly. However, upon looking at the OP's profile, I see he is 35, and unless he is dating teenagers, she should have known better.