Why is she being like this?

**Junket** · 15-06-07, 04:05 AM

Originally Posted by Steve2004

why are you so angry?

I'm not.

I'm just lookin' out for him is all.

**Perfguy** · 15-06-07, 09:33 AM

Thanks, guys.

And GigaBitch, you are right - I was here for that other issue with the work girl. In fact, my GF had to deal with some of her crap in the beginning - rolling her eyes at my GF when she came to my office (and the GF noticed)and saying bad things about the GF to me, etc. But, that was in the past. I no longer work there, thank God! I think the main issues she had were my height (she kept bringing it up that she is taller than me - and how she wouldn't have gone out with me if she knew my height b4 we started talking) and my "wimpy" behavior for not dealing with an issue at work and some other things. She would ALWAYS bring that up. But you know, that is just my personality. In the end she was constantly putting me down. She even would complain that the way I looked at my fingernails was gay! Like she said, she thinks I can do better than her and I hope I can.

**DoesntMatter** · 15-06-07, 09:36 AM

Wow, your girlfriend sounds like a bitch.

**vashti** · 15-06-07, 09:43 AM

She may be a bitch, but I'd work on that "wimpy" behavior if there is any truth to it. Everyone needs to learn to assert themselves when necessary, and I bet if you had done this sooner, she wouldn't have ended up being such a bitch.

**Sybella** · 15-06-07, 02:07 PM

I think it sounds like your better off without her. Don't be too down though. Someone else will come along and things will be better than they ever were before.

**Perfguy** · 16-06-07, 01:17 PM

Thank you. I went ahead and texted her saying I deserve to know the exact reason she was so unhappy instead of the vague answer she gave. I have yet to hear back from her....

**Freeway3137** · 24-06-07, 06:42 AM

Ahh **** her, my ex of 4 years did that shit out of nowhere. She was all cool and loving one day and then the next day *Chapelle voice* BAM bitch broke it off.

**alidile** · 09-07-07, 01:13 PM

Okay.
This exact thing happened to me and I was wear your girlfriend is. I was with a guy for 6 months and even the whole love word came into things which was absolutely ridiculous. he wanted to hold hands all the time the whole shebang.
She probably is feeling crowded and doesn't wanna hurt you and could have lost interest. At 6 months, you start to get bored perhaps, and I don't know how old you are but it might have just been that things got to regular and she didn't like the regularity of your relationship.
Remember... people who are married don't see each other every day or even remotely often. They have jobs and see each other for a few hours a day and don't always have time to be romantic and what not. That's why so many celebrity marriages fail, because they aren't used to living together.
Think about it... how often do you talk to your best friends and see them?
My problem was my ex wanted to see me more than my best friends and talk to me more as well.
Just if you want to know and you are ready for the honest answer ask her striaight up.
Tell me what you think.

**alidile** · 09-07-07, 01:14 PM

OOPS.
I'm sorry i should've read all of the posts including your original replies before typing my own but i got carried away after reading your story and looking at some of the other people's comments on it. :S

**IndiReloaded** · 09-07-07, 03:00 PM

The time to demand an answer from her was probably *before* you broke up. But good for you for asserting yourself. Just don't expect an answer b/c it doesn't seem her style.

Sorry this happened to you. Being bitchy in order to breakup is an all-too common strategy, unfortunately. Better luck next time.

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