You know, this would be the case if i did something wrong or cheated or left her, that would be understandable, ok? She came back to me, she told me she was serious, she started talking about serious relations. Ok? As soon as we started looking for banquet hall, she started giving me crap again. Do you really think it's normal to screw with someone's heart like that? Imagine guy you "dangerously in love" with proposes to you and then tells you you not good enough, you need to change and he cheated on you... And he basically doesn't give a crap about the commitment... You break up of course, after a while he comes back, telling you he was wrong, he shouldn've acted the way he did, that he changed now and he'll do anything he can to make this work this time. You believe him and take him back... He re propose to you... A week after you call/meet him and tell him"babe, i've found this nice place for our wedding, i think we need to go and check it out..." and he'll be like:"uhm... I need to talk to you, you know i'm not sure if i want to marry you, you need to change, you not good enough, i'm not sure if i love you"... Well you get the idea. How would you feel? Well my situation had even worse consiquences...
...The key is, being bold and gallant. She is looking for the knight on the big white Charger that she reads
about in her stupid romance novels. Remember, after she decides to keep you, she will be throwing
those books in the fireplace, where they belong, while trying to keep you warm!...
Doc. Love