When does the chase end ?

[Ngirl]

Oh yeah, another thing, Monday he called me (I had a day off work) and told me his boss (whom as I said before, I know well) asked him what was up with the two of us. He told his boss that we were really close friends BUT that even if we had a relationship, it would be none of his business! He's working both sat and sunday this weekend...so i'n not expecting much- if he does ask me out, or to watch a DVD or anything i'll say no (i'm starting to get a little pissed off at the whole situation)

2 weeks ago we both worked on a Saturday, as the kantine is closed on a saturday, I had a (male) friend come in and bring me lunch....at which he totally freaked out. While I was talking to my friend (about work!) he would butt in and ask me if that was me on his voicemail...to which I replied "impossible cause i've never called you before!" and more of that stuff.

so...he gets jeallous (unintentional from my side) but won't sleep with me, what'"s up with this guy? The more I think about it the more i'm ready to give this up- don't like playing games.

[misombra]

too much drama.

i say dump him.

[Gigabitch]

VD ??? maybe ?

That's exactly what I was thinking. Herpes, specifically.

[misombra]

you're so optimistic giga!

i was thinking aids.

[misombra]

you're so optimistic giga!

i was thinking aids.

could also be ghonaherpasyphlaids.

[Ngirl]

Joyful bunch you two !! Wel if he ever invites met to his appartement again I'll go looking for AZT in de medicine cupboard

He's been texting me, which i've ignored up till now- the last one asking if I was angry at him.

[ExpoNovak]

You could always corner him and lay down the law:

"I like you, you like me, yet you make no attempts to sleep with me. This is making me seriously question all the insensitive bastard implications that I like so much."

And then just see what he says. It's worth a shot.

[Ngirl]

You could always corner him and lay down the law:

"I like you, you like me, yet you make no attempts to sleep with me. This is making me seriously question all the insensitive bastard implications that I like so much."

And then just see what he says. It's worth a shot.

I love this one !!!! and i'm gonna use it ! just need to speak to him face to face now...and that's gonna be difficult the next few days as i'm off work till Monday and I then go into shifts. I have the day shift next week 6-6 and he has the night 4pm-3pm

[Ngirl]

Ok, so turns out he has split up with the gf he was living with only 2.5 months ago. I feel like backing off now, but that is not what he wants- he wants to keep me around as a friend. What next ? sure i'd stick around if I knew something was gonna come of this.

I think when he first met me he did want a one-nighter, but now he wants to keep me around for when he's ready to have a gf again.

[Gigabitch]

So you're supposed to hold your breath until such time as he deems himself to be ready? Feh.

Sometimes it's all good but the timing sucks. What can you do?

[miSSleepy]

He's into substances, hard partying, 2 failed marriages, 1 recently failed relationship, kids he doesn't care about, keeping you for games - o but he makes up for it cos he's a workaholic?

That's beyond 'bad boy', that's just irresponsible, selfish asswipe. I know you can't choose who you like, but I REALLY don't see anything good coming out of him.

[DarkDwarf]

No... Don't. You know you shouldn't

[DarkDwarf]

When I say 'No. Don't.', I mean forget him.

[Ngirl]

Well, as no-one has ever accused me of being patient, I will try to move on. I'm pretty sure he's not going to leave me alone though, we work at the same place and sometimes we have to work together. We certainly cannot avoid eachother. Though I'm in a better position than him, he works for me, not the other way around.