from my last relationship, i suffer from some kind of insecurities, i become jealous easy, and i have problems trusting people.
here's your example:
saturday my girlfriend and i met up with some acquaintances at a football game. there were guys and girls in the group, but she didn't talk much to the girls. i felt like she was hitting on the guys. i started getting disappointed after a while because she was ignoring me and talking to them.
she asked if she could take a sip out of one of their drinks, and that really teed me off. she noticed that i was tipped off and asked what was wrong, i was really embarrassed to say, but after a while i told her, and she kept saying things like "oh my god, that's so ridiculous!" after a little while, she apologized, but i was very angry.
she was invited to the party by them (they didn't invite me) and then she turned to me and told me i didn't have to go if i didn't want to. i took that as a "i don't want you to come" and at the 3rd quarter i ditched her.
i went to mcdonalds with a friend and then i came back and sat by myself studying for a few hours. as i was getting ready to go to bed at like 2 in the morning she drunk dialed me and asked if she could come over... she said she wasn't drunk, and i believed her, so some chick walked her over, and she was drunk as hell. she was saying and doing all kinds of stupid things, she started hitting on my roommate and wanted to make a porno, it was really irritating.
so then i asked her while she was drunk if she took sips out of other guys' drinks while she was there, and she said "yea a lot" i was very disappointed and i tried to leave the room but she wouldn't let go of me and promised that she wouldn't do it again. she told me that she wanted me to go and that she wished i didn't ditch her and all.
um, what the ****? i feel like she isn't taking this relationship as seriously as me... so maybe i shouldn't be.
should i be angry? how would you feel? what would you do?