A little update

[DoesntMatter]

During bio lecture I always sit in the very back left row by myself. Well, it would have been impossible over the last several weeks for me to not have noticed this absolutely stunning girl who always sits about 3 rows in front of me every lecture, always by herself. I say that she is beautiful in a beautiful way and a cute way, she wears hoodies a lot and is always paying attention to what the professor is lecturing about and taking hardcore notes. The fact that she is taking school seriously I find very attractive!

And I realize I’m starting to crush on her a little, which hasn’t happened since some girl in high school who I crushed on for like a year until she crushed me. So I’m very excited.

I’m definitely going to strike up conversation with her next week (no choice), I want to get to know her better SO bad it’s ****ing ridiculous. I can already establish that she’s mad cute but I have a strong hunch that she has an irresistible personality. I want to find out!

I want advice on this PLZ: Next week, a few minutes before lecture starts, I would go down to where she sits and ask if anyone was sitting in the seat next to her. If she says no (I anticipate that) I would sit down and tell her that I usually sit a few rows back and couldn’t help but notice her sitting there every lecture (an understatement!). I really want to know if she studies in groups ever, so I will ask her. If she doesn’t or if she does (who ****ing cares) I’m going to ask her to join me and one of my friends for when we study bio. And if she wants to I would get her number then. And if she doesn’t want to I’ll persuade her that it’s a good idea! I’m so pumped about this words cannot describe, so I won’t even try. I would have posted all this yesterday but I wasn’t thinking straight yesterday.

Something else though, in chem lab yesterday I was chatting with those two girls who make a lot of sexual comments and they were telling me how they spend Sunday nights doing the lab reports together, often over a pizza and beer or the occasional joint. And they invited me to join. But now that I realize I am interested in this one girl in bio I am not exactly excited about this anymore. But it happened (an offer made) is the point.

So please tell me what you think about this. In the meantime I need to shave, scrub that shit out of my belly button (could bring me bad luck), whiten my teeth which still suck (hey I’m a quarter English not my fault, and the coffee/mountain dew doesn’t help), cut my nails, you get the idea. I need to figure out what clothes I look better in too. So feedback puleez!

[Junket]

I would sit down and tell her that I usually sit a few rows back and couldn’t help but notice her sitting there every lecture (an understatement!).

If you're gonna do it that way, (I wouldn't), make sure to do so in a light-hearted joking manner. You don't wanna come off as a stalker if you haven't interacted with her before.

EDIT: Did you seriously use "PLZ"?

I almost banned you right then!

[DoesntMatter]

Would that really sound stalker-ish though? I mean, you would have to be completely oblivious to NOT notice someone siting in front of you everyday... I don't know

If other people agree with Fras then I won't

Oh ya I said "PLZ". ROFLCOPTER

[IndiReloaded]

Kinda agree w/Fras... drop the 'I've been watching you' line, but def sit & talk to her.

Re: teeth. Get those teeth whitening strips asap. You got a week, they work.

[DoesntMatter]

I'm so glad I brought this up with you guys. See how much of a social dumbass I am? I hate this world, it's so unforgiving for people who suck at stuff

[Charlie Boy II]

I want advice on this PLZ: Next week, a few minutes before lecture starts, I would go down to where she sits and ask if anyone was sitting in the seat next to her. If she says no (I anticipate that) I would sit down and tell her that I usually sit a few rows back and couldn’t help but notice her sitting there every lecture (an understatement!). I really want to know if she studies in groups ever, so I will ask her. If she doesn’t or if she does (who ****ing cares) I’m going to ask her to join me and one of my friends for when we study bio. And if she wants to I would get her number then. And if she doesn’t want to I’ll persuade her that it’s a good idea! I’m so pumped about this words cannot describe, so I won’t even try. I would have posted all this yesterday but I wasn’t thinking straight yesterday.

What you're trying to do here is actually not that easy, so don't get bummed out if it doesn't go your way. I remember trying to do the same thing from my uni days.

I would maybe spread your action plan over a couple of weeks. The first time you sit next to her I wouldn't focus on anything more than having a conversation.

Something else though, in chem lab yesterday I was chatting with those two girls who make a lot of sexual comments and they were telling me how they spend Sunday nights doing the lab reports together, often over a pizza and beer or the occasional joint. And they invited me to join. But now that I realize I am interested in this one girl in bio I am not exactly excited about this anymore. But it happened (an offer made) is the point.

Yew! Well done mate. You should go. The best way to improve your luck with women is to clock up your hours, even with ones you have no interest in f-cking. Go.

[DoesntMatter]

I'll definitely take that advice. Yeah I guess I got a little gung-ho about it. Start off small. My first idea was pretty much the opposite looking at it again.

And I'll go to their "group study" thing next Sunday. You're right it would be good practice at socializing better

[vashti]

You should be trying to interact with as many girls as you can. Go to the study group... things may not even work out with the other one who caught your eye. I also agree with the others that you should try conversing with the pretty one a couple of times before asking her out. She may indicate that she has a boyfriend and save you the trouble.


EDIT: GRR! ignore my post. Charlieboy beat me to it.

[DoesntMatter]

Think of it like petting a wild baby deer: You have to approach in a very slow, non-threatning manner or they bolt.

Haha, this is what I call a metaphor

[Charlie Boy II]

I'll definitely take that advice. Yeah I guess I got a little gung-ho about it. Start off small. My first idea was pretty much the opposite looking at it again.

Think of it like petting a wild baby deer: You have to approach in a very slow, non-threatning manner or they bolt.

[DoesntMatter]

Holy shit- I quoted Charlie before he said anything! Time travel ftw

[Gigabitch]

Tell Hoodie Girl that you've noticed how seriously she takes her schoolwork and that you want to put together a study group of serious students because the girls you study Chemistry with are airheads.

[DoesntMatter]

Should I try working on my appearance before I talk to this girl? Specifically kind of asking Giga vashti and misombra..

Because physical appearance is obviously the first thing she will notice and I don't want to give off a bad vibe or look "meh" (if you know what I mean).

I'm thinking maybe I should wait and grow my hair out a bit and get contacts and THEN try? Otherwise I feel like I'll be wasting my time in the meantime

[vashti]

You know, preferences about looks are somewhat individual. I don't have a problem with your glasses at all. Have you had some sort of negative feedback about them? I'm a little puzzled because this hasn't been an issue for anyone I know who wears them... i kind of thought that the days of being ostracized over glasses were over.

[squirrley]

DM, IF you want to change your appearance for your OWN self confidence than do it! But dont do it for a girl. Sure you want to impress her, but do little things dont make these obvious changes she will notice. Be subtle about it. Fly under the radar baby!

Glasses arent a bad thing. I can tell you a great smile wins me over! Having a nice smile shows alot! Sometimes people feel better when they do small things with their appearance. Changes their confidence level tremendously!

Goodluck and dont stalk her man! Have fun with it! Thats what meeting new people is all about, the thrill of the chase!