awww thanks babe.. <3 but your wrong alot of girls like you <3 Especially me![]()
awww thanks babe.. <3 but your wrong alot of girls like you <3 Especially me![]()
U don't necessarily need to be insecure about something to be jelaous, I believe jeaoulsy just shows that we are human beings!
God never closes a door without opening another one!
16 jealousy, I can't help saying "aaaaaaawwwwwww", LoL...
I think you are jealous because you think that boy is very important for you and you don't want to lose him. That's fairly well and normal. What I would like to ask, though, or have you ask yourself at least, is whether you are not putting too much emphasis to that relationship. I mean, is it more important for you that your daily activities or your friends?
I ask this because when I was 16 (I'm 28 now), many of my girl friends used to fall in love with their boyfriends so deeply that it sometimes even seemed they were loving their boyfriends instead of themselves instead of as much as themselves.
Im not sure.. I think I love him just as much actually no I love him more then i love or like myself... Im sure of it because I used to hate myself but that has changed since i have stated to date my boyfriend.. he made me feel more secure about myself.. so i guess i love him more then myself but i am happer with myself since i have been with him.. hes like my bestfriend and boyfriend I have more feelings for him then i have ever had for anyone...
Sweetie, you are young yet and havent developed those mature feelings and understanding them fully. You do feel like youre in love and right now youre placing so much emphasis on him that youre totally dependant on him now. Thats not a good thing.
I remember feeling the same as you, most of us have at that age. But its normal to feel jealous of other girls talking to him, you'd rather no female talk to him because you feel like oh crap if he starts talking to other girls he may find something more interesting in them and leave. Its insecurity too. You just have to learn its ok and feel enough confidence in YOURSELF!
Let him be and talk to other girls, it does no harm, theyre friends. Its healthy to have the opposite sex as friends. Just trust in yourself and you will be fine!
everything happens for a reason...beginning to wonder why.
Last edited by Mish; 09-11-07 at 07:00 AM.
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~
Guess what?
Everytime you get jealous, tell yourself you are really proud because all other girls can do is talk to your bf but you are already together with him.
can i just let him talk to girls but not the ones who stare at him all the time and like him?
The better question is: can you stop him? He can talk to whomever he wants, whether or not they have a crush on him.
Don't try to control his behavior. You can't, and it just makes you look bitchy. You are supposed to look at the way a guy behaves, and based on that, decide if you want to keep him. If your boyfriend is chatting up all the cute girls, he isn't ready for a relationship, no matter how much you like him. And for god's sake, don't sleep with him!
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
I don't even talk to other girls lol, i've maybe waved at a couple girls who a barely know. Ussually when i'm talking to another girl it was because i got stuck talking to someone, and no one that i would ever date -_- My love is all i need![]()
i've seen this before,i know that you get paranoid when your boyfriend talks to other women but you have to understand that he can't just stop talking to women,don't you think he seems the same way when you speak to men?
just talk to him about it and speak your problems out with him.just understand that your boyfriend will have to occasionaly speak to women.just know that YOU ARE his girl girlfriend not them...
hope i helped![]()