Okay so ya. I am extremely jealous when other girls talk to my boyfriend. How can i stop being so paranoyed about this? I know my boyfriend would never cheat or anything because thats the way he is, but is it normal to be this obsessed with someone your inlove with?
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27-10-07, 01:44 AM #1
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Yes, when you are very young. You tend to outgrow it to a great extent as you grow older and develop yourself more as a person.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
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27-10-07, 01:46 AM #3
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Im not that young tho...,...
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27-10-07, 01:47 AM #4
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and how do you outgrow something like that?
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27-10-07, 01:47 AM #5
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How old are you?
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
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Im sixteen
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27-10-07, 01:56 AM #7
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Ah, yes, that actually IS young when you look at a person's life span, and it is typical for someone your age to be insecure.
I think this is a self-confidence/self-esteem issue. A lot of this stuff decreases naturally with age, becoming self-supportive, finding meaning in something that does not involve you personally, gaining experience with the opposite gender, etc.. all of which boost your self-confidence and self-esteem.
Also, boys your age are well-known to be interested in spreading themselves around to as many girls as possible, so your insecurity is perhaps not entirely unfounded.Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
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Most teenagers never want to admit their youth an naivety.
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29-10-07, 02:12 PM #9
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try to controll your jealous by remembering that your boyfriend will never cheat on you ... also remember the extremly jealous is a deadly weapon.
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30-10-07, 01:44 AM #10
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okay thanks.. But im not insucure or anything.. and my boyfriend isnt like that he doesnt spread himself around like that. he is totally different then other guys and thats one of the reasons i love him and want to protect himk.. its not that hes all over girls its that the girls are all over him....
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30-10-07, 01:45 AM #11
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is it normal for a guy to deniy the fact that alot of girls like them?
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It's normal for a guy not to even notice.
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30-10-07, 07:57 AM #13
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Originally Posted by Gooshball-oxx
You ARE insecure, and chances are he is no different to other guys when it all comes down to it.
If you claim that he's totally faithful and uninterested in other girls, but the girls are interested in him, then you feel as if those girls have something more than you have. You may not be actually aware of it.
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+1 Originally Posted by miSSleepy
You ARE insecure, and chances are he is no different to other guys when it all comes down to it.
If you claim that he's totally faithful and uninterested in other girls, but the girls are interested in him, then you feel as if those girls have something more than you have. You may not be actually aware of it.
I tend to be on a similar path of thinking. To be jealous in a way is to be insecure about something.Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~
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yea well no girls like me...a girl walks by me and waves at me and she thinks she likes me =\ and this isn't your ordinary girl, this is a weird slitty girl who flirts with everyone(the one who waved at me) so yea i'm not denying anything...NO girls like me Originally Posted by Gooshball-oxx
you're just alittle paranoid my love <3
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