Are all women egocentric???

[cuddlemonster]

seems like it to me.

[miSSleepy]

um, are all MEN egocentric? Whatever your answer for that is, it's the same for your question.

[GrkScorp]

seems like it to me.

egocentric? not at all.. It's pretty obvious that you clearly met the wrong girl..

but egocentric people are easy to deal with.. I love egocentric women.. I look at them like they're the most disgusting thing in the world.. indirectly and subtly insult them.. while hitting on all their ugly friends.. why? because of guys like you.. who happen to make up the majority of my friends..

look.. we all hate people like that.. but instead of hating them.. why not just have some fun making them feel like crap about themselves and perhaps even doing them a favor by ridding them of their egocentric delusions..

anyway.. a better way to spend your time and energy is to just look for better women.. egocentric women are not worth your time.. it's one thing to be confident.. but egocentric is not attractive to either sexes.. so start being more aware of that turn-off.. look for the signs.. and move onto the next girl.. there're plenty..

[cuddlemonster]

egocentric? not at all.. It's pretty obvious that you clearly met the wrong girl..

but egocentric people are easy to deal with.. I love egocentric women.. I look at them like they're the most disgusting thing in the world.. indirectly and subtly insult them.. while hitting on all their ugly friends.. why? because of guys like you.. who happen to make up the majority of my friends..

look.. we all hate people like that.. but instead of hating them.. why not just have some fun making them feel like crap about themselves and perhaps even doing them a favor by ridding them of their egocentric delusions..

anyway.. a better way to spend your time and energy is to just look for better women.. egocentric women are not worth your time.. it's one thing to be confident.. but egocentric is not attractive to either sexes.. so start being more aware of that turn-off.. look for the signs.. and move onto the next girl.. there're plenty..

More like the wrong Girlssssssssss.....
my ex- her egocentricity didnt kick in untill year 3 of our relationship. one of my key reasons as to why i initiated the breakup.

wow the last6 women ive talked to all in a row have had that complex. im sure im just running into bad luck...

i know my topic is flawed in a huge way, but it seems that everyone is egocentric...and that our choices are based on ourselves.

[miSSleepy]

could you maybe give us an idea of how they're egocentric, and what you consider to be egocentric?

[vashti]

it seems that everyone is egocentric...and that our choices are based on ourselves.

Of course they are. They are supposed to be to some extent, at least until you reproduce. Looking out for what is good for you is healthy. Being completely selfless is not a virtue.

[GrkScorp]

i know my topic is flawed in a huge way, but it seems that everyone is egocentric...and that our choices are based on ourselves.

no no.. your topic isn't flawed.. let me ask you..

do you go after ugly girls? fat girls? girls that don't dress well? girls that are shallow? dumb women maybe? girls that act like men? No???

hmm.. interesting.. I guess that makes you very selfish.. looking out for only what YOU want.. and not what these women do.. did you ever think about how those women are feeling? who will ever date them if not you? why don't you do them all a public service and go with them?

didn't think so.. you're just as "egocentric" then as the women you're talking about..

it's perfectly natural to have standards.. high standards.. and even unrealistically high standards.. for as long as you can meet and get people who fall within your standards.. there's really no problem..

I would really like to know what you mean my "egocentric" though.. it's hard to me to imagine you meeting 6 egocentric women consecutively..

[miSSleepy]

That's why I asked him to explain - we're all kind of talking in regards to what we personally perceive to be egocentric. But I wouldn't go so far as to say that he's JUST as egocentric as them because he's selective about who he dates...

[cuddlemonster]

my definition sorda- the incomplete differentiation of self and others.


the last 6 women i dated (4 ive known for many years...other 2 i met) were the type that wanted me to change to their likings... they know i love kids and work with them... but they know i dont want to get married... they in their way...were trying to convince me to rethink .....

what else... several women i dated hated the fact that i play videogames and build computers.... they saw it as too geeky for my complex. like what the ****????


so they saw crucial qualities in me that deffered longterm rel. possibiliotes... so instead of understanding and accepting they chose the other route...

so maybe scratch egocentric and replace i with __________. a word that describe people who want to change others but not themselves.

[vashti]

I think you fail to understand the basic dynamics of male-female interactions. Females make relationships with males hoping they will change, and males make relationships with females hoping they will NEVER change. Both are unrealistic points of view.

[cuddlemonster]

I think you fail to understand the basic dynamics of male-female interactions. Females make relationships with males hoping they will change, and males make relationships with females hoping they will NEVER change. Both are unrealistic points of view.

yes i know that quote

im just wondering why i have had this sort of luck. maybe im just attracting it.

[IndiReloaded]

You get what you expect. Do a search for Law of Attraction on wiki. Maybe you give out signals to these women that you WANT to change...?

Myself, I am completely self-centred. Any posts on here are mere figments of my extended, very active imagination. In other words, you're all just here to amuse me when I can't sleep. Indi's World online, just for meeeee....

[miSSleepy]

You get what you expect. Do a search for Law of Attraction on wiki.

please say you're joking!

[misombra]

lol it's so funny, all the words and phrases some of you guys come up with for girls just because none of them will like you.

anyway i'm with vashhh. a girl has to have confidence. yes this confidence can develop into egocentricity, but that is an extreme.

gskorp, why would you do something like that? that is very manipulative and cunning of you, don't you think? to flirt with the "ugly friend" specifically to make the other girl feel bad about herself. i'm willing to bet that in 90 percent of those scenarios the effect was you looking like a cunning, manipulative person who is upset because the snobby girl doesn't like you.

some girls are aware of your sincerity gskorp. i always am. i've had many guys come at me just to get at my friends. i've also been the snobby girl that doesn't want to talk to anybody. the snobby girl that doesn't want to talk to anybody doesn't care what you're doing anyway. she knows you all are scum and as long as you're not talking to her, that's okay.

i couldn't see flirting with an ugly guy because i want to knock some egocentric guy off his pedestal. they can do that for themselves. i would much rather just leave him alone and talk to a person i truly like.

[Gribble]

Everyone's egocentric. But some people are egocentric hypocrites.