women have muscles too. how many women have you wrestled, doesntmatter? i haven't met a girl yet that hasn't provided me with a challenge (unless she was very submissive and did it on purpose) while arm wrestling, wrestling or whatever. and strength is not about muscle alone. it is about technique, speed, resistance, etc too. what are your sources?
anyhow, what i was asking was does your boyfriend feel the need to live up to that generalization? does he think he can beat you up because he is 'supposed to be' physically stronger than you?