I'm so lonelyyy =|

[j0nny_PT]

hi people xD


I would like to know what are your point of views about the meaning of to be alone....girls say to me that i'm nice, that I have a good personality, but i cant't find a girl that like me...

I'm a little shy....maybe this is the problem..=|


Give me some "dikas" to help me.


P.S. sorry my bad english XD

[Gigabitch]

Are you asking people out or waiting for them to give you some kind of sign first?

You have to take risks if you want the rewards.

[miSSleepy]

Give you some what?


what exactly is your specific question?

[j0nny_PT]

I don't have lock with girls =(

[Mish]

Jonny, it's not an easy question. There are entire books written on the subject. To sum it all up you need to be happy with yourself, how you look, how you act, how you are. You need a good self esteem. Happiness attracts people around you. Then, you need to go out and surround yourself with people. Go out looking. Start conversations with random people, random girls and eventually (time being the important factor here) you will find one right for you.

[j0nny_PT]

thanks =)


(...) I think my problem is...I'm a little shy with girls that I don't know very well...but with time....I open my personality to the person.

If someone want to help me giving me some tips, send to me by PM (private message) with your e-mail adress.

...And if possible indicate some books with this theme.


Cumps xD

[Tired]

you just gotta man up and take risks as gigabitch says.....its stressful as hell, it's hard for some people....very hard for me, asking a girl out is like doing a presentation in front of a class/office, i get mega nervous but once its over with i'm thankful its over.

Just gotta go for what you want, I wish it was easier but its not

[nuevo]

You should buy "how to be a man" by Nuevo

pathetic

[j0nny_PT]

LOOOOL ahahahah

[Gigabitch]

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If someone want to help me giving me some tips, send to me by PM (private message) with your e-mail adress.

Why would someone hide golden advice like that in a PM?

[Tedel]

err... let's see if this helps.

1. at home, write down all your positive traits on a piece of paper. It may be hard in the beginning, but thinking well, you should be able to write down at least 40.

2. read your list again.

3. decide to show that instead of your shyness next time to walk out the door.

4. repeat as needed.

That should help.

[sosoangel3]

How old are you?

[j0nny_PT]

I'm 18 years old

[Kromat]

That's why teachers want students to give presentation, It's an evaluation
of how you know your material and how It's going to be presented in a confident
matter. Just prep up ahead of time and start talking with random people, about
the news, entertainment, the environment you are currently in, why she's sitting
alone, and then once you see that you have asked questions that she doesn't
mind asking, input some feedback from her, but It's always nice for the girl to
answer your questions, and just answers her questions with honesty and just
let her trust you before advancing.
It's all in the approach and deliver, don't worry about being rejected, just go
n with an attitude that It's her lose and just move on.

[Illusional]

what the hell is dikas?? maybe the girls that you are trying to impress don't understand your language. then again, maybe you aren't going after american women. who knows.

raverboy