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Thread: I want be more than friend but i am confused...

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    [B]Update:[/B]
    So,exams are over now,so when we return form this 1-week vacation i'm gonna make my move.But i will add some new facts for you to analyze:

    1.It is CERTAIN now that she likes hanging out with me,as a friend always.

    2.My friend "the teaser" made a very long discussion with her,about a girl he likes,asking advice.I suppose that after that he is not so into her or at least cant make a move with her soon.And she didn't seem dissappointed at all.

    3.After the above discussion,she said she wanted to ask him something too.Then she told him about a boy she met,complimented her,asked her phone number,exchanged a few messages,but nothing happened and they haven't talked for 2 months.She said she liked him(that boy) but not much to call him after that.SHE KNEW i was listening because i was right beside him(she wasnt talking exclusively to him anyway,and i didnt bother to pretend i wasnt listening).Does this mean that she has never thought about me as a potential boyfriend or maybe she was trying to make me jealous?Should that worry me?She also asked how to say turn down a boy gently.I didnt tell my opinion on any of those.At least i know she'll try to do it gently...

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    Quote Originally Posted by thefallenheart View Post
    if you do not ask her out and she was in love with you then you will hate your self for all day every day for all your days and nights you have and that is just too cruel.
    This person is NOT kidding, but loveforums wasn't around when I needed it . I still think about her and I hate myself everytime I see her picture or see myself in the mirror.

    ASK! if you like her a lot.
    "Why are you an atheist?"
    "because I paid attention in science class."

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    I really want know what do you people think about 3...i mean the last disscusion

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    its a risk man. maybe you should be a little more upfront with the flirting that says everything you need to know. If you dont have the will to ask her out yet and are afraid of rejection and the awkwardness it may bring then ask her to hang out in a setting that is not only school realated something that you both my find intrest in or at least you know she's into. I couple a few whatever its been is a long time to have a crush and not do anything about it. if she says shes to busy or something try to suck it up and move on then if you are looking at other dates you wont feel awkward about one rejections if she says yes then maybe it will lead to a kiss and a kiss usualy lead to a girlfriend but you wont ever know if you dont try and every girl likes confidence not pigheaded arrogance just a subtle confidence really it may make all the diff
    is fate your destiny

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    Stop being a ****ing pussy and ask her before it's too damn ****ing late.

    NOW.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kiechi View Post
    Stop being a ****ing pussy and ask her before it's too damn ****ing late.

    NOW.
    TAKE IT EASY MAN!i TOLD you i WILL ask her out,when WE RETURN TO THE SAME CITY.Its not just a no-school vacation.

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    make sure to do it man, dont wanna miss out on a god opourtunity and think what if?

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