feeling weird when not with gf

[FoxyLaydee]

the problem is our marriage is 5 years from now but it confirmed. I just can't wait 5 years. i really missed my gf so much. yea...maybe some think 9 months is too early to talk about marriage but we really love each other so much and sincere to each other. sometime when missing each other, me and my gf hard to do work because sometime we getting stress about the work load adding with missing each other so much. thats the problem right now.

Are you Malay? Some Malay families still believe in arranged marriages (thank God my parents don't!). I'm Malaysian too but much much older than you are. I can't relate to any of this (thinking back when I was 15!) cause at that age, I wasn't into guys that much and marriage was furthest from my mind. What was important to me was my family and studies. Heck - they are still important to me.

9 months is too early to talk about marriage. When you're in love - everything seems all nice and dandy. One thing you have to realise is all the feedbacks and more to come are from those who have experienced more than one relationship, perhaps some have even been in more than one marriage so you might hear things you don't want to - in this case, read.

I can't help thinking "aaww this guy is so sweet and he's 15!" but let me tell you this... take it slow. I know you are taking it slow but don't rule out the possibility that your love for one another might change given a few years. You're still young. Women at the age of 20 - 25, some of them don't even know what they want, let alone a 15 year old!

we are studying in elite school and our future seem so bright with out result is getting better for both of us and university won't be a problem and marriage will not be a problem also.

Good for you that you're in an elite school - Sri KDU?

Oh and one more thing, what do you mean by your wedding is confirmed?? I would like to know...

[TheXxBestxX]

yeah mate. i am malay but my parents not arranged it for me. i arranged it for myself.

[Junket]

yeah mate. i am malay but my parents not arranged it for me. i arranged it for myself.

Yeah, you shouldn't trust your judgment at this age.

If it really works out for you, great.

But don't be surprised when it doesn't.

After all, I understand everybody needs to learn from their own mistakes.

[sine24]

its great that you care about this girl so much..but you have to remember..you are 15! do what KIDS your age are doing. you shouldn't be too worried about marriage right now. sure, you're allowed to fantasise about the idea, but clearly you are not mature enough at this stage. go on dates, study, travel, etc before you think about being tied down. please dear heaven, dont tell me you want kids soon too.

you might be feeling like you miss your girlfriend a lot if she's your first love? i dont know, but it sounds like a 'first love' feeling to me. just enjoy your teenage years kiddo..you've got the rest of your life to think about marriage and the lot.