Hi Ladies,
Just need some advice. I've fallen in love with a girl, a university class-mate of mine. She's the first girl I've actually deeply fallen in love with or put in effort for/tried going for. I'm 25 and have never gone out with any girl in the past, although I've had a crush on many. We've been to dinner and movies a few times, plan to live togethar next semester, and will be travelling in Europe this summer. It hasn't gone any further than that. I seem to think that she is interested in me, but perhaps I'm wrong.... Although I really do love her and want to go out with her, I'm also afraid to take it further. You see... I'd rather have her as a 'good' friend than get into a relationship, perhaps have it not work out, break up and ruin even the friendship we had.
Here is whats confusing me the most. Like I said we've become really close and talk about everything. The other day we went out for dinner and while eating she said she has two secrets to tell me... First how one of her best girl friend (who we all think is very quiet and innocent) had sex with another good male friend of hers. I told her its no big deal. Every does it. The next secret she told me was that a year ago she had been sleeping around with another class-mate of mine, who doesn't go to our school anymore. She said she only used him for sex, and how he was physicall awsome and blah blah....
What do I make of this? As much as I love her dearly, I will admit, it does make me look at her a bit differently. Although I know things like this goes on, I wish she didn't tell me all these. But what I'm wondering is why did she tell me these personal stuff??
To fill you in more.. A few days ago, she broke up with a guy she'd been going out with for over a year cuz he treated her like shit. She also keeps asking me so "tell me more about you" Who are you interested in? Is there anyone in school that you're interested in? I just say there is no one who was worth me time/energy.
Please help me... I love her too much.
thnx