Hi everyone....this is my first time ever posting on a site like this. I'm hoping that I'll receive the advice I need. I've been looking through this site for the past week and have now decided to post. Anyway.....
I met my fiance about 2 and a half years ago on yahoo personals. We clicked immediatly and moved in together shortly after (about a month and a half). We have so much in common. That brings me to the present.
He lost a child with his former fiance when the child was about 4 months old. It was a terribly traumatic experience and it's been 5 years ago now since that happened.
Here's the situation.....he proposed to me about 4 months ago and I've been extatic! I'm completely devoted and 100% faithful to him but he has some trust issues with me. I think it might be due to the fact that he was cheated on in his past relationship. Anyway....a week ago I could tell that things were different with him so I asked him what's bothering him. I know that he's dealing with the loss of his child this time of year but it's different this time. He told me that he wants to moving the wedding out 2 more years. Some of the reasons I understand but between him telling me that and saying that he hopes what he's feeling passes and if it doesn't he doesn't know what to do I'm left feeling very alone. I've been walking on egg shells all week trying to be supportive and understanding and hoping that he'll come out of this. I love him so much and I just can't immagine my life without him in it. When he proposed and I said yes I made a lifetime commitment right there. I just want to make him happy. I don't know what to do. He is truly the love of my life and up until about 2 weeks ago things have been wonderful. Of course we have our ups and downs but I think that's normal in any relationship. I should tell you that between the 2 of us there are 3 children involved also. I'm sorry this is so long but please give me some insight. I want things to work so bad I'll do anything.