So here is my story...

[maybeoneday]

Thank you.
I'v really been doubting all of this and questioning myself. You have really helped..

[maybeoneday]

I have another question.
This guy is really different from what people around me would expect.
to me it really doesnt matter what people say or think but do you think that could be a problem?

[Dasein]

I have another question.
This guy is really different from what people around me would expect.
to me it really doesnt matter what people say or think but do you think that could be a problem?

What does that mean exactly? How is he different?

[maybeoneday]

Well everyone in my family, my older siblings are all with russian people, being that im from a russian family.
This guy is not russian. It doesnt bother me at all because iv grown up here all my life so i dont know any different. I guess my family would probably want to see me with someone from the same culture, but like the thing is, to me its not a problem. But do you guys think i should really think about it or its not a big deal...

[Dasein]

Damn! If I had to limit my choice of partner to one ethnicity I would call it quits now.

It is ONLY important to your family. Will your family date him? No. So don't stress about what they think. It is what you think that matters.

[maybeoneday]

I know you are right. And i feel the same way too.
But it is harder when you have to deal with it.
I guess they will just have to deal with it.
Its what i want.