Can't Believe It!

**dolphindelight** · 27-09-08, 08:47 AM

Originally Posted by Cain

I don't believe for a second that you just want to be friends with him. You wanted to be friends so you could hopefully get him back when he came back home. This just happened a few weeks ago... that he broke up with you... for ANOTHER woman that he had NEVER met before.

Come on. Show that you have some dignity.

He and I are just friends, we have no romantic feelings for each other. There's nothing wrong with being friends with a former spouce/love/boyfriend/girlfriend.

**Cain** · 27-09-08, 08:57 AM

Originally Posted by dolphindelight

He and I are just friends, we have no romantic feelings for each other. There's nothing wrong with being friends with a former spouce/love/boyfriend/girlfriend.

You seemed to be incredibly heart broken a week ago. And there's nothing wrong with being friends when the person earned the friendship. When they leave you for someone they have known for a couple of days, I think that's worthy of not being friends.

**dolphindelight** · 27-09-08, 10:53 AM

Originally Posted by Cain

You seemed to be incredibly heart broken a week ago. And there's nothing wrong with being friends when the person earned the friendship. When they leave you for someone they have known for a couple of days, I think that's worthy of not being friends.

I was, but then I got used to him being on a vacation & me doing my own thing, and he and I being friends. I didn't expect him to stay there. He was supposed to go there for a visit and then come home, but that didn't happen. I honestly don't know what's going on with them, I don't know if they're romantically involved, just friends, or what they are. It seems to always be changing....

**Cain** · 27-09-08, 11:41 AM

Originally Posted by dolphindelight

I was, but then I got used to him being on a vacation & me doing my own thing, and he and I being friends. I didn't expect him to stay there. He was supposed to go there for a visit and then come home, but that didn't happen. I honestly don't know what's going on with them, I don't know if they're romantically involved, just friends, or what they are. It seems to always be changing....

Of course it's always changing. They haven't known each other but two weeks!

I still don't know why you'd want to be friends with him. Do you not have any friends?

**starbuck** · 27-09-08, 11:50 AM

Dolphin to be honest, I find it odd that you're not angrier with him about it. It seems sort of creepy and robotic.

Weren't you in love with this guy? And now all of a sudden, two weeks later you don't have any romantic feelings for him?

**dolphindelight** · 27-09-08, 12:25 PM

Originally Posted by starbuck

Dolphin to be honest, I find it odd that you're not angrier with him about it. It seems sort of creepy and robotic.

Weren't you in love with this guy? And now all of a sudden, two weeks later you don't have any romantic feelings for him?

I think it was more along the lines of I was in love with him but with everything that's happened it lessened, and I was hoping that he would go back to the person who he used to be. However I know that that's not possible. I was angry and hurt when I first found out, however I knew that there was a small possability of him not coming back when he was supposed to. I just didn't think that he would actually stay there, cause it would seem like not the wisest thing to do. While he was on his vacation, I found out a lot about myself. I cried, got mad, and went through a ton of different emotions. I was so used to having him around and then I didn't so it was a matter of adjusting. I started doing activities that I used to enjoy, and I found myself again. I became a stronger person and learned a lot about myself. So when he told me that he wasn't coming back, yeah I was sad & mad but I realized that he doesn't need to be in the same town for us to be friends, also he's planning on visiting so I figured that it is possible and doable to have friends across the country. You can still talk to each other and communicate with each other you just don't get to see each other as often as you used to. Also I started writing again and I love it! I'm living my life and am enjoying it. He got himself into a mess and I have to accept that and let him make his own mistakes. I will be here for him as a friend and I'll be an ear to listen to but sometimes people have to learn stuff the hard way.

**Hollywood** · 27-09-08, 12:33 PM

Wait, how long have you known him?
How do you know he's only been knowing her for 2 weeks?

**dolphindelight** · 27-09-08, 02:14 PM

Originally Posted by Hollywood

Wait, how long have you known him?
How do you know he's only been knowing her for 2 weeks?

I've known him for over 10 years we grew up together. I know he's only been seeing her for 2 weeks cause he left his home and moved across country and is now living with her. He was supposed to visit her for 2 weeks and then come home, instead of coming home he stayed there.

**Hollywood** · 02-10-08, 07:23 AM

That's what I'm trying to figure out.
He could have been talking to her longer than you know/
Idk... it just seems so bizarre and desperate to do something like what he did. Any updates on this thread?

**dolphindelight** · 02-10-08, 09:15 AM

Originally Posted by Hollywood

That's what I'm trying to figure out.
He could have been talking to her longer than you know/
Idk... it just seems so bizarre and desperate to do something like what he did. Any updates on this thread?

I guess when people feel trapped they do strange things. There are no updates....

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