that he is married.
It's a disappointment.
We fit in so well only to find out that he is married with 2 kids. Though the marriage is not a happy one, he is still married.
Just wanting to post here and share my thoughts.
Its miserable. For all these years, I have finally found the one. But that one is married with a wife who doesn't treasure him as an honest and responsible husband. She spends all his savings and now they are in financially tight-up.
He mentioned briefly, out of frustration, that his wife is very difficult to please and he seemed at
many times wanting to share his pain in the marriage. But I suppose as an honest and responsible person as he is, he chose to curtail the conversation. I can almost feel he has a lot of dilenma, always sighing and worrying.
Its a far cry from his days before his marriage.
Personally I think its tragedy. We cannot date and talk like we wantto. But behind our minds, we like each other a lot and we chat about life in general. He is always so happy to talk to me, even if its only on the phone. We now live miles apart but it seems that we are only a heartbeat away.
I have so much on my mind now and I don't have my friends near me to talk about it. Most of them are working overseas with families and I don't want to trouble them.
Any advice here ?
The sadness comes in big because I have spent a long time finding such a person and also because I have met quite a few unsuitable people before.
I like to have a family of my own, a loving husband I could cherish and a kid or 2 whom I could always take care and love. Finding someone whom I could share my life with and support in what he does. We could have been perfect. He's work and life ideals are very similar to mine. We share the very similar temprements and character.
Many times, I do think life has really know how to play with me.
Thanks for reading and I hope to read some advice.