I posted a little while ago about me and my guy friend that I hang out w/ alot and I've been trying to do what it takes to take things a step further.
If you go back and read my post, you can see he's really silly and physical around me so I try to be the same hoping he'd put two and two together....if we're physically messing around I try tickling him and doing stuff like pulling on his ears and things like that but I dont know if that's working.
On sunday night he called me up out of the blue asking if I wanted to go do something sometime and before I could say yes, he changed his mind and asked if I wanted to do something that night. I said sure and so we met up and afterwards he hugged me [which he hasn't done in a long time] and thanked me for making time for him and coming to hang with him and I thanked him for thinking of me and giving me a call.
His exact response was "Oh of course...I was just sitting around, I was bored it being sunday night. I wanted to go do something and get out of the house."
And I asked him why he didn't just get up and go do something and he didn't say anything back, but then he started mumbling about something as I was getting in my car but I didn't hear him.
A few days later when we were hanging out again [which was planned in advance way before the sunday] we were horsing around [this is the day when i was pulling on his ears]...and at one point I was laying on the ground on my back and he's like half sitting / half laying on me and then the weirdest thing happened:
He turned around so he can lay on his stomach on me then he turns around so he's sorta laying on me kind of like in a 69 position but he didn't have his head in my "private" area....but because of the way he was laying on me his lower abs/groin area was practically on my face/head and he says "I'm just going to lay on you" and then he starts giggling and then gets up off me.
I was like so shocked I just didnt do anything but chuckle. I'm just so confused by the guy. It's like interested or not? If interested I thought being playful and doing things like pulling on his ears and making time with him...would be enough to clue him in?
But is it?