Would a fake email be so wrong?

[sassback]

So I'll try to keep it short. I met a guy in November and we dated until the day before New Years. We fought quite abit because of my insecurity and his hot temper. We broke up just before New Years.

Since then we have talked on and off and seen each other a couple times. When I bring up the relationship he pulls away or causes a fight.

I have let him go twice now, and just when I start to move on a bit, he contacts me. He just contacted me this past Sunday and invited me to a superbowl party. I went and everything was great. I got along with his friends and he seemed like his old self around me.

Since I saw him that day he has had minimal contact, and the past two days has ignored my texts, emails.

I know he wants space, but when I give it to him, he reels me back in.

He says "we can't have a relationship yet" Am I reading too much into the yet?

I feel like in his mind he wants to take things slow and someday get back together but I don't have all the time in the world and I have told him this!!!

So I had an idea to pretend to be one of my friends and email him. My "friend" would tell him she thought we were great together but that there are a couple guys on the prowl for me and he better snap me up before someone else does. I was hoping this would put a fire under his butt!!!

Feedback please....be gentle...

[Cain]

A better idea would be to go out some place and actually have a few guys approach you. Jealousy is best in person.

Though, do you really want to play games?

[bluesummer]

Why are you chasing after a guy who only wants you when it's right for HIM? Come on now.

This fake emailing is silly and immature (sorry). If he found out you were doing this, he'd think the same thing. As it is, he likely already suspects that if your 'friend' is telling him this, it's stuff you're feeding your friend to pass on. It just doesn't look good.

I have a better idea for you.....go find some other guy(s) for REAL, and forget about this one. If he gets jealous, who cares. If he doesn't want to be with you when you're interested and available, then he doesn't want to be with you that badly. Some guys just like the challenge of getting an unavailable girl or the thrill of the chase. You're making yourself a puppet for his whims. Stop it.