
Originally Posted by
madaline1964
I am a woman,and I am asking the guys,If you cheated on your wife who has been faithful to you for all of the years that you know her,and she now found out from somebody else,what would you do?and how do you expect her to react to the news?and what will be your next step?.
You have to look at this from a more logical perspective and less from a moral perspective.
If the guy is cheating on his wife, then it's clear that morality doesn't even enter into the equation.
He may cheat for several reasons... all of which is irrelevant other than the fact he wants to cheat and wants to do so discretely.
How does a man go about cheating without getting caught? By keeping the woman oblivious or confused... and when someone does 'snitch' on him... he will do everything within his power to discredit such a person.
However, if he can no longer discredit those who call him out... can no longer keep the woman oblivious or confused... then he will deny, deny, and deny. May even blame the woman that it was her 'insecurities' that caused the demise of the relationship. And even if he does admit to cheating... he'll blame her for it as he walks out the door.
Btw... what was the motivation for your question?
"The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."
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